A committed monogamous relationship is not healthy when one partner has a best friend of a datable gender. Read a few Reddit stories and you’ll see boundaries are crossed all the time people end up getting a little tipsy an accidental oops sleep together. Also, they develop stronger feelings for each other. Even if they don’t do either of those, they share the intimate moments and go to their best friends forever for advice. All of those things belong in the primary relationship.
If you can't tell your wife, yes. Fucking duh.
A committed monogamous relationship is not healthy when one partner has a best friend of a datable gender. Read a few Reddit stories and you’ll see boundaries are crossed all the time people end up getting a little tipsy an accidental oops sleep together. Also, they develop stronger feelings for each other. Even if they don’t do either of those, they share the intimate moments and go to their best friends forever for advice. All of those things belong in the primary relationship.
Run
He wants to hurt you. People don't want to hurt the ones they love. Ergo, he doesn't love you. Divorce him.