They're depressed, so you cut them some slack. That level of depression becomes the new 'normal', you try nagging and super-organising their life so stuff gets done and you're not missing out… the nagging makes you feel bad/like their mother and is actually yet another chore for you… you let your standards slip because you don't want to be the only one putting in any effort.
Eventually they claim that their mental health is suffering because you aren't tidy enough/doing enough.
There's friendly kissing and romantic kissing. It's fine if it's friendly kissing, not fine if its romantic. It's pretty simple really. I would probably have a problem if the friend she was kissing was a man / lesbian woman, if it's another straight woman, no.
Thanks for the reply, first of all I get it man, I really do, but is this just me being such a hothead I can’t let this shit go for two days? Or am I just so over protective where I shouldn’t be? I just have such a strong bitter feeling in my chest when she feels discomfort, and fuck me i just want to make it better yk
What are you scared of?
They're depressed, so you cut them some slack. That level of depression becomes the new 'normal', you try nagging and super-organising their life so stuff gets done and you're not missing out… the nagging makes you feel bad/like their mother and is actually yet another chore for you… you let your standards slip because you don't want to be the only one putting in any effort.
Eventually they claim that their mental health is suffering because you aren't tidy enough/doing enough.
Does that sound familiar?
There's friendly kissing and romantic kissing. It's fine if it's friendly kissing, not fine if its romantic. It's pretty simple really. I would probably have a problem if the friend she was kissing was a man / lesbian woman, if it's another straight woman, no.
Is this what you want your life to be like? All those love bombs come at a very steep price.
A person like this will suck your soul out.
Thanks for the reply, first of all I get it man, I really do, but is this just me being such a hothead I can’t let this shit go for two days? Or am I just so over protective where I shouldn’t be? I just have such a strong bitter feeling in my chest when she feels discomfort, and fuck me i just want to make it better yk
You are the one whom she will seek to get what the others don’t give her. Taking her out, gifts, emotional/financial support, validation etc.