4 and 6 yo don't remember much from Disney. Your 25yo daughter has been an adult for 7 years. Could have let her barrow a car. Don't tell her you are going on vacation without her. Rude. It's rude you are even going without her.
Why would you stay with someone who openly disrespected you and your relationship by saying it in the first place?
How I would handle that “trauma” would be to tel him if he’s so interested and down to do it then he can wait for her to to decide to finally do it without using me as a substitute. I’d end the relationship. I certainly wouldn’t wait around to find out if it will happen.
You don't see how moving in a boyfriend of less than six months into your home with your child that barely knows him and is uncomfortable with him is selfish? Just how good is he in bed? What does he provide for you?
My ex and I were together 10 years. She cheated on her ex before we met, cheated on me our first month “together,” and then I found out she was doing it again on our 10 year anniversary with a coworker. I had quite a few times over the years where situations seemed off to me, but I put them in the back of my head, telling myself, “She wouldn't do that to ME.” Guess what? She was, I'm almost certain, doing it the majority of our relationship.
We have a kid together who acts and looks just like me. But doing the math on when we thought our kid was conceived, it was a weekend where we were doing coke (haven't touched it in years now) and I know she was alone with another dude by herself for at least 45 minutes while his girlfriend and I ran to grab something. I'm 99% sure our kid is actually “our” kid, but there's that 1% that I hate her for giving me doubt about.
I knew she was a cheater, I knew she cheated on me at least once and then stayed with her for 10 years because I loved her, and of course she did it again and destroyed our family. Don't be like me, use your head and not your heart on this one OP.
It sounds like this was just too much, too soon for the relationship. As soon as you’re medically able, I would get out of there and go home.
4 and 6 yo don't remember much from Disney. Your 25yo daughter has been an adult for 7 years. Could have let her barrow a car. Don't tell her you are going on vacation without her. Rude. It's rude you are even going without her.
What does he do for you, exactly? Honestly trying to figure this one out.
e he has never lied to me before
OP….you barely know this man and you've been ignoring other red flags already. So HOW could you make this sort of statement at this point?
Why would you stay with someone who openly disrespected you and your relationship by saying it in the first place?
How I would handle that “trauma” would be to tel him if he’s so interested and down to do it then he can wait for her to to decide to finally do it without using me as a substitute. I’d end the relationship. I certainly wouldn’t wait around to find out if it will happen.
You don't see how moving in a boyfriend of less than six months into your home with your child that barely knows him and is uncomfortable with him is selfish? Just how good is he in bed? What does he provide for you?
My ex and I were together 10 years. She cheated on her ex before we met, cheated on me our first month “together,” and then I found out she was doing it again on our 10 year anniversary with a coworker. I had quite a few times over the years where situations seemed off to me, but I put them in the back of my head, telling myself, “She wouldn't do that to ME.” Guess what? She was, I'm almost certain, doing it the majority of our relationship.
We have a kid together who acts and looks just like me. But doing the math on when we thought our kid was conceived, it was a weekend where we were doing coke (haven't touched it in years now) and I know she was alone with another dude by herself for at least 45 minutes while his girlfriend and I ran to grab something. I'm 99% sure our kid is actually “our” kid, but there's that 1% that I hate her for giving me doubt about.
I knew she was a cheater, I knew she cheated on me at least once and then stayed with her for 10 years because I loved her, and of course she did it again and destroyed our family. Don't be like me, use your head and not your heart on this one OP.