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Edging with Mina Luxx & Oliver Davis
Date: February 20, 2023
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Pipes matter. I clogged the toilet regularly at my old house, and thrice in 6 years at my current house
Your fiance has a pride and ego problem that is preventing him from seeing the world (work, relationship, etc.) for what it is, instead of how he thinks it should be. Rejecting an award or commendation from your boss is going to reflect poorly on him, and whether he wants to believe it or not “corporate suck ups” get promoted far more than the people fighting against the system. Suing the company is obviously a pointless endeavor that he'd lose.
He's not living in reality, and what's more is that he seems to be self-destruction in a way that is detrimental to your relationship as well. You HAVE been incredibly supportive and helpful towards his issues from your account, and just because you disagree with how he views being “disrespected” doesn't mean you haven't been supportive. Unfortunately, he just seems like someone that expects everyone to agree with his views, and not negotiate on those things for his or anyone else's own good.
I wouldn't just be reconsidering things, I would be ending them, personally. His ego and pride is taking priority over your relationship, and he's refusing to do anything to help.
Why is his sister living with you guys? And what has made you uncomfortable to set clear boundaries with her? Do you fear losing your boyfriend? Does she have a job or does she need some sort of support? This isn’t about you * liking * his sister as much as it is the sister having no boundaries or rules in your home. I think you need to put your foot down and either create firm rules for what the sister needs to pay for/what chores she needs to do or ask her (with your boyfriend looped in) to move out. If she refuses, you can move out. Just keep it not personal and say you can’t maintain the house of 3 anymore. She obv sounds mean and rude also but I feel like this problem is really about you not being comfortable setting clear boundaries with your boyfriend and his sister.
First off, that wasn’t negligence- you agreed to sex under the condition that he would put a condom on, and he finished without ever doing so. That’s a violation of your boundaries and consent, and I would consider it tantamount to SA. Add to that the fact that he’s treating you coldly, cheating on you while you’re pregnant with his child, and declining every opportunity to communicate responsibly or seek the appropriate avenues (ie individual therapy and/or marriage counseling) to confront whatever problem HE has with you, the person who’s supposed to be his partner, and that’s enough to call it- your marriage is over. You need to start carefully planning your exit strategy.
Second off, and equally important- If he doesn’t already know that you know about his cheating, DO NOT confront him with it! Don’t let him know you know, and don’t confide in anyone close to him who might let it slip that you do, or have the opportunity to clue him in by treating him differently, given this information. You are in an extremely vulnerable position, being pregnant and dealing with a dishonest and temperamental partner, and you need to hold your hand close to your chest, so to speak. DO reach out to safe friends and family you can trust and let them know that you need help and how to help you though! There are lawyers who specialize in cases like yours, and resources available to you. You’ll need support of all kinds, and you should seek it anywhere you safely can, but the goal should be to keep him content until the day you whirlwind pack your belongings or kick him out, as advised by your attorney. Start saving and planning now, and stay safe.
Can you go to a friend's or family member's place to stay until the end of the month? At least that way you won't have to see it in first person.
I am sorry he is acting like this. I imagine it is painful to witness.
It's over. Do not share the dog seriously, don't hold onto anything that keeps reopening old wounds. Healing and moving on needs a clean break for you and her. This might be the best thing in the world for you as well, or at least you can make it that way. Embrace the change.
I am empathetic to that. If I were you I wouldn’t mention it for a while and try to focus on the things that are going well in your relationship.
Do you think you will be able to come to the USA and is she asking for you to?
It says.. a LOT about you that you think this ?
You start to prepared by spending some time in each other's physical presence. Even thinking about moving to a new country or getting married is TOTALLY premature and inappropriate if you've literally never even met the dude yet.
You aren’t finding anyone attractive because you haven’t split up, disengaged and healed. You are worrying over nothing.
Not defending it but from what I've been told by my Asian friends this is normal and Asian parents are generally very strict and do whatever they want as you are in their home still.
If this is hurting your relationship with them then it might be time to figure out a way to move out.