As long as you and your bf are on the same page and have a plan for if/when you have kids how to deal with major holidays family events etc. I see no major issue.
Not all families want to branch out and welcome others, while somewhat shitty in my opinion, it's not a dealbreaker. This is only as long as they respect that sometimes you will chose your family instead.
If she hasn't asked, then what you are doing is meaningless here. You assume she will think or act in a certain way, but that's on her to manage or discuss. You needing to know sounds like it comes from insecurity. You've already admitted that knowing won't stop her from doing whatever, so what good does demanding to know do you?
She's cheating.
Dump her.
As long as you and your bf are on the same page and have a plan for if/when you have kids how to deal with major holidays family events etc. I see no major issue.
Not all families want to branch out and welcome others, while somewhat shitty in my opinion, it's not a dealbreaker. This is only as long as they respect that sometimes you will chose your family instead.
This is exactly how I feel. He sees no problem with it!
I don't think you could get a bigger red flag than this. What you do is up to you.
If she hasn't asked, then what you are doing is meaningless here. You assume she will think or act in a certain way, but that's on her to manage or discuss. You needing to know sounds like it comes from insecurity. You've already admitted that knowing won't stop her from doing whatever, so what good does demanding to know do you?