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Date: March 28, 2023
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YESSSS! In retail and service work, the manager is suppose to intervene or your co-workers have to actually not disclose your whereabouts for SAFETY reasons.
Like who knows who is exactly looking for you and it’s a liability of one’s safety if you do confirm their whereabouts.
One job I had, we had a manager whose ex’s wouldn’t leave her alone. It got to the point he was calling and stopping by asking about her. We didn’t know why and we never let him know when she was in because of this reason cause god forbid something happened to her!
And there are news stories, this is a big reason why, where you read about women getting hospitalized or wind up dead from the hands of an ex or stalker coming to her job, finding out her schedule, then waiting for her!
Like Op had to advocate for their safety with their managers and GM. Make it know that her ex & his family should never be allowed to know where you are, when their shifts are, and anything else that gives away anything that would reduce Op’s safety.
Aww thank you. ?? yup I’ve noticed a guy always looking at me but he has seen me Chris so maybe he may never talk to me again
I give up on people like you
I have had to deal with nearly this exact thing before in my relationship. I felt horrible because I have always been the emotionally supportive one in all of my relationships, but I was just stretched way too thin at the time and was having anxiety attacks even thinking about having to listen to him vent.
I'm gonna say your gf probably doesn't realise this is affecting you. My spouse sure didn't when I had to talk to him about not leaning on me so much for a bit. We talked it out and worked out the solution that he needs to vent to friends about the tiny, everyday stuff. I can't listen to him vent every day, but I will always be there for the bigger stuff that he needs actual support with.
In reality, this worked by me making a short list of topics I couldn't handle for a while (his venting, current events, and sad internet headlines mostly), then reminding him whenever he started going on that we aren't talking about this. I would then change the subject, and we'd move on. Then, when he really needed me, he would ask for support explicitly (e.g., “I'm having a really bad day, I just need to get this off my chest”). This way I could mentally prepare so I didn't feel so overwhelmed.
It has helped LOADS. I think it's also helped my partner because now he isn't working himself up about tiny things every day either. And as I've gotten into a better place, I've been able to take things off the “banned topic” list most days – on very hot days I tell him I feel fragile and he knows to keep things light.
The key here was COMMINCATION ABOUT EVERYTHING. I have to communicate my mental state, and he has to communicate his support needs
Honestly nothing here is terrible. Crappy sex is not super uncommon the first time. If everything else is promising most people understand and overlook it.
Next time be more open and use your word. There was a real lack of communication there.
Sex is awkward for most people. It’s not like the movies. You have to learn to use your words and not take it too seriously.
It’s not that no woman wants to hear you haven’t been with many women, it’s that they don’t want to be responsible for teaching you. With sex you learn together. You have to be open to being open. Try stay away from alcohol, it’s not your friend when you are already anxious.
Put this down to experience, stay out of the Manosphere and loosen up a bit. You’ll be fine.