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You’re allowed anyone else. But you’re upset that you can’t have your friend as a GF. Your wife wants your physical needs taken care of not your emotional. If you’re doing something that feels wrong then your marriage is doomed. However, your wife kind of brought that on herself.
What you do is you leave him. He's 28 and he's not going to change, because he is selfish and immature.
You know what's in your future if you stay? Imagine having kids with him, and he'll be asking for oral a day after you give birth or when you haven't slept in days.
And sooner or later, he'll cheat and he'll be gaslighting you because you didn't give him enough oral.
Cut your losses, tell him to suck it and find someone who actually does respect you.
You need to leave him before he makes good on his word and kills you. Say nothing. Pack your essentials while he’s asleep or at work. Take your car and gtfo.
Yeah no this isn’t okay. This is limiting this cats life and it’s unfair to the animal. Your girlfriend is selfish. I too love cats and am allergic. You get used to their danders btw, the hives, eye watering and itching go away after about a week but you have to interact all the time. The only time I ever got allergies after that was if my lips were chapped and I kissed my cats head or if she scratched me.
Cats groom themselves it’s what they do and bathing too often actually makes it worse as their skin gets dry, more danders, more oil production = more grooming. Please either get this cat a new home or take the cat and give it the best life it can have.. honestly if she’s this selfish now what happens when you guys have kids? Will her needs dominate theirs too?
Are you comfortable being his bang-maid for life? Because he's clearly decided that that's what you are. FFS, he waited a week to do the dishes and clean until you came home to do it. He does not care because he KNOWS you will do it. Lay down the law. Tell him that this cannot continue. And if it does, you don't think you can stay together. Then follow thru.
Seriously are you happy right now? It sounds like living with a child and that just gives me the ick. The man that you're allowing to share your bed with you treats you exactly the way a toddler would treat his mom. Gross.
No, it means that she's looking at it as if the person he slept with is different than another woman. Which she technically is if she has male genitalia.
Unless someone came out of a very strict home or is part of a “religion” that is against it and is actively living it out. The chances of meeting a virgin in this day and age especially if you online in the west is really low.
To add to that, many women have a tendency to “lie down” as it relates to their sexual history because many women(dare I say most) know the problems that come with being honest about their history. So even if they do tell you, don't be surprised if you get slapped with a “none of your business response”, or a seemingly low number or one that is almost always lower than the one you give them.
Now that aside, I think what may be really bothering you is more the fact that she lied, and now having to deal with the reality there is likely more to the story. All I can really suggest is to sit down and talk about it with her, but unfortunately, no way to know what other pieces are missing.
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Haha very nude. We’ve hung out one time so far, is it better to tell her I’m into her or to bring up a date like you suggested?
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You’re allowed anyone else. But you’re upset that you can’t have your friend as a GF. Your wife wants your physical needs taken care of not your emotional. If you’re doing something that feels wrong then your marriage is doomed. However, your wife kind of brought that on herself.
What you do is you leave him. He's 28 and he's not going to change, because he is selfish and immature.
You know what's in your future if you stay? Imagine having kids with him, and he'll be asking for oral a day after you give birth or when you haven't slept in days.
And sooner or later, he'll cheat and he'll be gaslighting you because you didn't give him enough oral.
Cut your losses, tell him to suck it and find someone who actually does respect you.
Because he’s abusive. And he’s not sorry.
You need to leave him before he makes good on his word and kills you. Say nothing. Pack your essentials while he’s asleep or at work. Take your car and gtfo.
Yeah no this isn’t okay. This is limiting this cats life and it’s unfair to the animal. Your girlfriend is selfish. I too love cats and am allergic. You get used to their danders btw, the hives, eye watering and itching go away after about a week but you have to interact all the time. The only time I ever got allergies after that was if my lips were chapped and I kissed my cats head or if she scratched me.
Cats groom themselves it’s what they do and bathing too often actually makes it worse as their skin gets dry, more danders, more oil production = more grooming. Please either get this cat a new home or take the cat and give it the best life it can have.. honestly if she’s this selfish now what happens when you guys have kids? Will her needs dominate theirs too?
Are you comfortable being his bang-maid for life? Because he's clearly decided that that's what you are. FFS, he waited a week to do the dishes and clean until you came home to do it. He does not care because he KNOWS you will do it. Lay down the law. Tell him that this cannot continue. And if it does, you don't think you can stay together. Then follow thru.
Seriously are you happy right now? It sounds like living with a child and that just gives me the ick. The man that you're allowing to share your bed with you treats you exactly the way a toddler would treat his mom. Gross.
No, it means that she's looking at it as if the person he slept with is different than another woman. Which she technically is if she has male genitalia.
Unless someone came out of a very strict home or is part of a “religion” that is against it and is actively living it out. The chances of meeting a virgin in this day and age especially if you online in the west is really low.
To add to that, many women have a tendency to “lie down” as it relates to their sexual history because many women(dare I say most) know the problems that come with being honest about their history. So even if they do tell you, don't be surprised if you get slapped with a “none of your business response”, or a seemingly low number or one that is almost always lower than the one you give them.
Now that aside, I think what may be really bothering you is more the fact that she lied, and now having to deal with the reality there is likely more to the story. All I can really suggest is to sit down and talk about it with her, but unfortunately, no way to know what other pieces are missing.
It sounds like you’re looking for a reason to get out.
Why has she given up and not concerned?
Most men would want and choose a wife and mother of their children cooking. They would consider that an important requirement for marriage.
But you didn’t and got the results.
Fuck, even pot these days can kick my ass.
He’s not ready to be a dad. You will need to find someone that is ready for that.
You're smart, you caught him, believe what you see.