You'd be remiss if you believed this was a long term change. I certainly hope you're ready to leave when he inevitably gets relaxed enough again to return to his precious behavior.
People who are like this are excellent at convincing themselves and their partners that they care and want to change. And then enough time passes that they relax and forget and then it's back to treating you like dirt. I genuinely wish you good luck.
Frankly, give her the divorce, and when you heal from your back surgery, then work on yourself, mind, body, soul, profession and education. Take some self-defense classes. Make her eat her words.
She doesn't respect you, or your attempts to diffuse the situation, which, BTW, takes more strength than to just jump out and start wailing on someone.
Sounds like a terrible arrangement, get an apartment and potential partner. Move in but take the relationship stuff slow lol
Immature, childish, rude.
Shall I continue?
You'd be remiss if you believed this was a long term change. I certainly hope you're ready to leave when he inevitably gets relaxed enough again to return to his precious behavior.
People who are like this are excellent at convincing themselves and their partners that they care and want to change. And then enough time passes that they relax and forget and then it's back to treating you like dirt. I genuinely wish you good luck.
Frankly, give her the divorce, and when you heal from your back surgery, then work on yourself, mind, body, soul, profession and education. Take some self-defense classes. Make her eat her words.
She doesn't respect you, or your attempts to diffuse the situation, which, BTW, takes more strength than to just jump out and start wailing on someone.