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Date: October 6, 2022
Just be passive and let her do whatever she wants.
So happy for both of you. He was 11, just a child and at the age when lots of children look to their father after looking more to their mother in the early years. It's great that you'll both have the support of your PiL as well as your new husband while you rebuild your relationship.
Sounds like my ex. Just divorce. The person you thought you knew is gone, or perhaps was never there.
I'm sure she does, but that's fine and not my business. It's healthy I would hope. I would be a huge hypocrite being annoyed at that while venting about her here on the internet 🙂
Stop being a coward. Either break up or fix the issues
You need boundaries. You had them before but they were kinda unspoken rules of common sense and behavior. This time you need to tell her this was not okay with you and you need her to see someone so she can work on this anxiety she has, don't accept a non answer she you bring up seeing a doctor again, and in the meantime you're going to take some time apart because what she did hurt you and to not worry, if something happens that she needs to know of you'll make sure she will know.
You're very right on her trying to guilt you, this was not going to get fixed if “you only had let her know” that's a line that sounds a lot like manipulation and putting the blame on you and I'm not okay with that. That's another thing she needs to work on, toy can't force though, only tell her what her behavior did for you and then toy taking measures if this keeps happening. My mom is like this as well and is frustrating, hurtful and infuriating, everyday we grow apart more and therapy has helped to set boundaries and not feel awful by not bending at her will.
Yeah but stop spending it on her. Match her gift.
Yup, absolutely. It sure does suck when grown adults refuse to take blame for anything.
Say it again for the people in the back!
I do try to reassure her that I do want to be there for her, and she does tell me that sometimes it’s sorta crazy that I’m so genuinely eager to be with her and be there for her, but other times I may thoughtlessly say something or act in such a way that makes her feel like a convenience. Today I told her I would call her soon, but neglected to tell her that after I’d said that I’d run into some issues at home that prevented me from calling her, a fact that I’d mistakenly thought I mentioned. It made her feel like she didn’t matter, even though she knows it was a mistake, but I just keep blundering and it’s hard for me to identify where I can address myself, you know? I know what I need to address but every time I do I slip up somewhere else and it’s very disheartening haha.
(And yes, she’s a bit of an over thinker, we both are tbh)
Have you tried unexpectedly slapping his nuts? If he doesn’t like it, tell him it’s a him-problem and he can deal with it.
But really, he is unworthy of you. You deserve better. Singlehood is much better than staying with someone who is abusive.
He said that a lesser person wouldn’t stick around to deal with my trauma
A better person wouldn't make you feel like you're undeserving of love and he's doing you a favor by sticking around.
I hope you can get real help for your mental health.