I just read it. You're absolutely NTA, but holy shit your husband is. Your kids are at risk and you being incredibly disrespected in your own home. If he can't see that and act accordingly (at least the bare minimum) then seriously consider leaving.
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You can “feel it's time”, but if he doesn't feel it yet then what you're asking for is for him to lie to you. Real love takes time to develop and some people are slower than others to let themselves get that deeply emotionally involved. If the relationship is otherwise good you shouldn't get so hung up on this simple exchange of words. Some people never say it, preferring to prove it through their actions and deeds.
Oh boyeee, no offense you need to look at this more maturely. Both of you are young, and inexperienced. Don't stress yourself out over something so trivial, it's unlikely your relationship lasts into marriage, so just have fun.
you dropped your best friend because he had sex with a girl before you even met her?
I dont wanna break his heart. I've tried leaving before but It broke me hurting him.
I just read it. You're absolutely NTA, but holy shit your husband is. Your kids are at risk and you being incredibly disrespected in your own home. If he can't see that and act accordingly (at least the bare minimum) then seriously consider leaving.
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You can love him, but love you more.
You can love him, but love your kids growing up with healthy, happy relationships more.
Loving him doesn't mean you have to torture yourself, it doesn't mean staying somewhere you aren't happy.
He broke it – he isn't stupid, this was the risk he took when he hopped into someone else's bed multiple times.
He cheated on you, he cheated on your kids, he cheated on the life you've built together.
Your kids will model your relationship in their own.
This is not healthy for anyone.
Also – get an STD test π
Sounds like itβs just the one friend. Tell him he can leave his gf home if itβs such a problem
You can “feel it's time”, but if he doesn't feel it yet then what you're asking for is for him to lie to you. Real love takes time to develop and some people are slower than others to let themselves get that deeply emotionally involved. If the relationship is otherwise good you shouldn't get so hung up on this simple exchange of words. Some people never say it, preferring to prove it through their actions and deeds.
Oh boyeee, no offense you need to look at this more maturely. Both of you are young, and inexperienced. Don't stress yourself out over something so trivial, it's unlikely your relationship lasts into marriage, so just have fun.