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I think that it's kind of complicated. I don't think its your fault at all and to a certain extent if he didn't want to see you certain times when his dad passed away he should have communicated that. At the same time, it could be that at that time he felt obligated to go see you without fully reflecting he felt he was not up for it. I think you should have another talk with him about whether this is the only time he felt unappreciated and if it is then just say you feel sorry he felt that way and say that if he ever needs time again he should feel empowered to say “sorry, can't hang out”. However, please note that its not your fault as you aren't a mind reader and unless you kept nagging him to hang out its just a case of miscommunication. If there are other example, reflect on whether they make sense or not. He can't say that you don't appreciate him giving up doing certain things to be with you if he never lets you know he can't or doesn't feel up to it.
. She’s clearly a gold digger, who’s using my dad but he can’t see it.
Oh, OP….you really think your dad is innocent? He's a 50 year old who went after a woman in her very early 20s, basically the same age as his daughter. He's a creep.
This is my take. I have childhood trauma and while I don't have kids, I came to the sobering realization I control our pets and a lot of other things because of it. Therapy has really helped and having my spouse hold me accountable as well.
It's been a very nude process though. Not for the feint of heart.
The only way it changes is when there is a shift that changes the reason why you broke up in the first place.
Most people will fall back into the way things were pretty fast and you parted ways for a reason. So if you want to try again, you must remove the issue
Are you sending him lovey texts throughout the day? Or just upset that you’re no longer getting them? Have you put in the effort to make sure he feels as loved by you as you’re expecting him to make you feel? There are tons of reasons people pull away, and a very common one is that it’s a response to someone else pulling away. So…is there anything you’ve done over the past couple of years that could contribute to him texting you differently?
Personally, I think first dates are a time to put your best foot forward.
There’s no way of saying I enjoyed hanging out with you but I didn’t like how you dressed, as that is something that is a personal choice and it’s unfair for you to ask her to change who she is.
What I would say is “hey, I had fun when we hung out, but I didn’t feel a spark between us. However I still enjoyed spending time with you and wouldn’t mind hanging out as friends.”
only add the friend part if you truly mean it. Otherwise you can end it just with the first sentence.
I think that it's kind of complicated. I don't think its your fault at all and to a certain extent if he didn't want to see you certain times when his dad passed away he should have communicated that. At the same time, it could be that at that time he felt obligated to go see you without fully reflecting he felt he was not up for it. I think you should have another talk with him about whether this is the only time he felt unappreciated and if it is then just say you feel sorry he felt that way and say that if he ever needs time again he should feel empowered to say “sorry, can't hang out”. However, please note that its not your fault as you aren't a mind reader and unless you kept nagging him to hang out its just a case of miscommunication. If there are other example, reflect on whether they make sense or not. He can't say that you don't appreciate him giving up doing certain things to be with you if he never lets you know he can't or doesn't feel up to it.
That's Methed up…
The real answer. Quality people don’t accept being treated like that.
. She’s clearly a gold digger, who’s using my dad but he can’t see it.
Oh, OP….you really think your dad is innocent? He's a 50 year old who went after a woman in her very early 20s, basically the same age as his daughter. He's a creep.
Then why do you have to kill it?
This is my take. I have childhood trauma and while I don't have kids, I came to the sobering realization I control our pets and a lot of other things because of it. Therapy has really helped and having my spouse hold me accountable as well.
It's been a very nude process though. Not for the feint of heart.
The only way it changes is when there is a shift that changes the reason why you broke up in the first place.
Most people will fall back into the way things were pretty fast and you parted ways for a reason. So if you want to try again, you must remove the issue
Are you sending him lovey texts throughout the day? Or just upset that you’re no longer getting them? Have you put in the effort to make sure he feels as loved by you as you’re expecting him to make you feel? There are tons of reasons people pull away, and a very common one is that it’s a response to someone else pulling away. So…is there anything you’ve done over the past couple of years that could contribute to him texting you differently?
Personally, I think first dates are a time to put your best foot forward.
There’s no way of saying I enjoyed hanging out with you but I didn’t like how you dressed, as that is something that is a personal choice and it’s unfair for you to ask her to change who she is.
What I would say is “hey, I had fun when we hung out, but I didn’t feel a spark between us. However I still enjoyed spending time with you and wouldn’t mind hanging out as friends.”
only add the friend part if you truly mean it. Otherwise you can end it just with the first sentence.
Hope you are doing ok.