I definitely don’t think there’s any reason to suspect cheating. He’s probably just not sure if you’d be into that; some men are embarrassed, or think that other people will see them as gay if they like butt stuff (very untrue), or are otherwise ashamed of liking anal play. My advice is to not mention that you found the toy, but (if you’re comfortable) bring up if he’d like to try some anal stuff.
Also, another vote for ew, why isn’t he washing his toys.
Because she expects to have her cake and eat it, too. Go travel while she's at the Bachelorette party. Fuck what she thinks. If she really can't handle that, then that sounds more like a HER problem and not a YOU problem.
this. If it were a cis man of woman this thread would be all about how this is borderline SA, but OP isn't allowed to feel violated because her bf lied about being trans. I don't get this thinking
You’re stupid for taking your girlfriend whom you should care about to a dangerous neighborhood where simply speaking English (your gf’s only language) could escalate a situation. You fucked up.
Dump her for asking
definitely do not bring a child into this situation
I definitely don’t think there’s any reason to suspect cheating. He’s probably just not sure if you’d be into that; some men are embarrassed, or think that other people will see them as gay if they like butt stuff (very untrue), or are otherwise ashamed of liking anal play. My advice is to not mention that you found the toy, but (if you’re comfortable) bring up if he’d like to try some anal stuff.
Also, another vote for ew, why isn’t he washing his toys.
Yup 100%. OP is being so silly. Girl neve loved him, not in a romantic way anyway. She liked him because he was convenient.
Because she expects to have her cake and eat it, too. Go travel while she's at the Bachelorette party. Fuck what she thinks. If she really can't handle that, then that sounds more like a HER problem and not a YOU problem.
this. If it were a cis man of woman this thread would be all about how this is borderline SA, but OP isn't allowed to feel violated because her bf lied about being trans. I don't get this thinking
Yes.
You’re stupid for taking your girlfriend whom you should care about to a dangerous neighborhood where simply speaking English (your gf’s only language) could escalate a situation. You fucked up.
i would understand if it's about someone irl because that would go the same for me then again i guess it's just different with everyone.
I truly want to be wrong or over reacting and she convinces me of this each time I really am in love with her and don't want to end it
Congrats. Have a great time.