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Date: October 9, 2022
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accidentally injuring me He’s always been a bit of a clutz on accident just being too rough when he’s trying to be affectionate. He’s like a Great Dane that doesn’t know his size.
I mean, OP seems sure it’s accidental and unintended. Perhaps you know better than she does though. Abuse is about control, I can’t think of how one could abuse another without intent.
Being a clutz, may be unattractive or undesirable, which matters in the big picture of partnership, but saying it makes them a bad “PARTNER” (because it must be true if it’s capitalized) is just being dramatic.
Stop rooting for the failure of peoples relationships. OP, asked how to get a point across, you all hit her with “its abuse”. I can hear the circus music playing while you all are typing.
I hope she’s going to be ok!
She’s still definitely making me happy, just this specific thing within the relationship isnt
Just ignore ignorant bs like the above comment. It's just their own man hating projected out on others. Many women work, have babies, care for them, help around the house, and still love and are physically intimate with their husband. It doesn't take two or three years after having a baby to crave physical intimacy with your partner again.
Lots of things, like their plans over Christmas, school, how things are going… lots of things 🙁
2 weird people. The friend is better off.
How is this different than any guy proposing?
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That's a ridiculous request. If you and your current wife break up, will she really be okay with someone else determining how you communicate about your children?
Children are forever, there's still school, breakups, weddings, grandbabies, other life events and minutiea that you'll need to discuss.
The most probable scenario here would be that the earring was probably there way before the two of yoh moved in and both of you never really noticed it until now
Tbf she forgave me n I’m excited. I’m playing around frfr. The “purrr” was supposed to make it playful
Damn, some people gotta live loose a little and play a game of Beer Pong or Flip cup in their 30s. Might get them off of Reddit for a little bit.
First off, yikes no wonder why you wanna end things. I completely understand. First, start putting some money away. Do you guys live! together? Share accounts? Bills? I would start financially pulling away. Then talk to a divorce attorney. You can do this, start looking for a place you can leave him and stay at. Don’t let him know the location. Please let your family know what is going on. I understand they are going through cancer, but you are their family and I know they don’t want this life for you. They will also help guide you. Don’t ever be afraid to reach out for help.
It sounds like she deceived you into believing you two would have children in order to convince you to stay. Since you do want children and she does not, and she has made deception an acceptable tactic to keep you around, it seems like your consent to the marriage hasn't been informed.
Time to call a divorce lawyer, and cut all contact with your wife. Do not respond to her at all. I don't know what you mean when you say “hurt her feelings every chance you get” but that sounds like emotional abuse. This isn't a 2 wrongs make a right situation. Keep your nose clean, do what your lawyer says, and you'll be fine. Be petty and treat this as an opportunity to torture your wife and you'll rightfully end up with a DV charge or emotional abuse in the divorce proceedings.
Call a lawyer and abide by their instructions.
Thank you, that's an important point to think about. The house I bought is a 3 bdrm 1200 sq ft house, and he's already mentioned wanting to sell it to upgrade to something much nicer when it's not his and we wouldn't be able to afford it. So I know that once we do move in together he's not going to want to budget and online within our means the way I'm accustomed to. I like my house and worked very naked to renovate it on my own, I wouldn't add debt to sell and upgrade.
You’re willing to own up to what you did and make things right??? The first step to that is admitting you suck. Where were your thoughts and feelings for your GF when you were screwing the side chick? You suck.
You think it was a mistake??? You suck.
You cheated. You suck.
You Are garbage and your GF deserves better. If you have any respect for her (which we know you don’t) apologize, tell her the truth and online by her decision.
Just to be clear, he broke up with his girlfriend of 9 years in December and immediately moved in with you? No gap? Sounds like they were on a temporary break and now it's over
I love this…I would never leave her she is my rock
I understand exactly what you mean, and this would be my ideal situation. I don’t need anyone to tell me or assign to me what needs doing, I just see it and do it. I’d like the same from my partner. The problem is, he apparently sees no issue with living in a mess. If I left anything up to him, we’d be living in a gross, cluttered mess. He doesn’t see something that could use doing, and just take initiative. That’s the reason we’ve (attempted to) set things up the way they are, with things being “split.” But even splitting doesn’t work. He’s even said that he doesn’t care about cleanliness as much as I do, so why should he have to live! by my standards?
I’m really at a loss here and considering just giving up and leaving. But I, as per usual, really love him and am saddened by losing him. ?
Busy with work and school huh?
Men who are interested will find a way to make time. He's either not interested, or more likely, he's got a GF who he's cheating on.
NEVER LET HIM NEAR YOUR VAGINA AGAIN
That's all. ❤️
The most cringe for me was the guy who thought he was talking to Katy Perry; he had an heirloom emerald turned into an extravagant engagement ring, I think. Nev and Max took his dumbass all the way to the UK to meet his catfish who was a regular, normal girl. And the WHOLE time this guy is waiting for the real Katy Perry to jump out of the bushes and surprise him. It was really sad and honestly frightening commentary about the kind of obsessive fans celebrities and their circles deal with.
She said that she doesn't want to be friends anymore, I'd say that's pretty firm. I agree, OP needs to cut her off, but he's still trying to maintain a relationship with her which is the issue.
I like your friend. One of my ex’s has my name on his inner bicep(no, I was not for this lol) 1.5 inch lettering. He’s married now, and last I saw he still had it. I have wondered how that is dealt with.
Did you read any of the post?
thank you for your kind words ?
I feel like you use your autism as an excuse or crutch per se. Being autistic has nothing to do with why she cheated on you. She would’ve done it regardless. Going through messages is a dangerous game. I don’t know what’s better, not knowing for sure or getting your feelings hurt. For me, I’d rather not know. It’s easier said than done but uh I think you should cut contact with this girl. She seems to use you as a door mat and doesn’t even treat you like a person.
Why put up with that? I had in the past and it just burned me.
When you mentioned that she was a stay at home spouse, I assumed that you had children. Honestly, you should consider divorcing her if she refuses to get a job, yet ices you out because you were unfortunate enough to get laid off and is meanwhile running up credit card bills.
Oh, same!! Even if she hadn’t had a miscarriage…2 days post op?!? Still on pain meds?!? You must be out of your mind, sir. Then to punish HER? Hot no, give me the silent treatment forever at that point.
she will not unfriend them.
I think that should tell you what you need to know about the bride. I’d be concerned about the longevity of their marriage.
Wow, I'm not saying your wife is a b***h, but she's certainly acting like one
Honestly, it sounds he needs to grow up. He’s 25 and acting like a teenager on summer break. I think you should have a serious conversation with him about it and let him know your frustrations. Maybe try to schedule our days that you should spend more time together vs days he can game with his friends. If he doesn’t take it well, then that just shows his immaturity imo