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Date: October 11, 2022
Sounds like he thinks that you cheated
There is more. Had guys call my phone at 4 am because her number was forwarded to me….she said all her friends phone died at the club and that's why she gave her number to the guy
Telling someone upfront who you ‘think you are’ even if you really really think you know yourself really well is not going to help a date judge you correctly. It sounds like you want to be yourself as much as possible and not fake it to impress, so just try as best you can to do that and go where things lead.
Caesar's wife must be above suspicion. Cheating is not the only way to destroy a relationship – giving the impression of doing so is equally damaging. Unfortunatelly, she crossed lines she shouldn't have crossed, all for the thrill of being around a bunch of druggie rapists. I'm not sure about you, but that's not something I'm looking for in a girlfriend.
Also,
Shes never one to lie to me.
Instead, she prefers to go silent. It's not lying if she's not saying anything, right?
but I feel like it's my fault cause I was like “Go, so you can see one of your favorite bands.”
She could have gone and stay in the back. She could have dragged a friend with her. She could have considered that nothing good would come out of it, and decide to go see them only if you were around. It's not your job to tell her what she can and cannot do; it's her job to decide what is aligned and not aligned with the life she wants to live!.
Thank you, thankfully there are lots of parks where I on-line so I think I should be able to find one suitable.
I’d probably just stay out of it, those two are non of my business anymore.
You can love someone and still recognize that they are a terrible partner.
She doesn't love you if she's cheating on you.
She doesn't love if you she's intentionally hurting you.
She doesn't love you if she's lying to you.
She doesn't love you if she's manipulating you.
You may love her, but she does not love you back.
The best advice is twofold:
(1) You can be supportive of genuine attempts to better himself, but you can’t “fix” this and would be unwise to become a shrew about it. Which leads to this:
(2) See your situation more clearly. This is NOT a case where you have a good boyfriend with incidental flaws. This is a case where your boyfriend is functionally flawed until he chooses to grow up and fix it.
The right form of the question is not, “Does my boyfriend self-sabotage?” It isn’t even “How can I help him not self-sabotage?”
The right form of the question is, “Do I choose to be in a relationship with someone who self-sabotages?”
Because you have chosen to be, and that isn’t going away until he decides to change, and nothing you can do will make that happen, except maybe leaving him and looking for somebody who actually strengthens your chance of achieving your life-goals.
Thank you for your insight. I can't also help but think that he is, like you said, slowly revealing his ideas. He has told me this is not the case and that he's always been open, but who knows. Nowadays he is as he is and he's unable to be curious about other people's opinions, just quick to label them wrong.
It feels so shitty to talk like this since he can be very sweet too, as I said. But maybe I have a right to express this.
It’s worse because a deadman can’t defend himself. And this must really pollute your grieving and that’s awful thing for her to do that to you and your boyfriend.
I’d agree. He definitely made the first move. We were cuddling and going to bed and he started getting handsy. I definitely wanted to sleep with him. I’m totally attracted to him. It’s the repercussions of that (him losing respect for me) I don’t want to deal with. I’m gonna be really careful, and probably not hook up with him next time he asks to hang out if he does.
Honey, I’m so sorry, but you two are fundamentally incompatible. Why would you wait a year to move in with him and his mom when you already know this?
Love is not enough. Love does not conquer all. Do not stay with someone expecting them to change their core values and principles or their life plan. You will only be disappointed, resentful and regretful in the end.
Now they're literally arguing like a married couple and it's a little weird to me. Maybe I'm overreacting though.
You are not overreacting. Your boyfriend and his mom have an unhealthy and codependent relationship. He is not her husband, but she leans on him like he is. He feels he can never leave home, and she feels like she can control every aspect of his life. Trust me when I say that if you move in, that will be extended to you as his partner and it will also be extended to your future children, should you have them. The dynamic is set. You do not want to raise a family with this man and his mother.
I shouldn't have been so honest but I feel like it needed to be discussed.
Yes, you should have been so honest! If you already feel you can’t be honest without it causing issues, what’s the point? You did need to discuss this. Now you have your answers. He isn’t going to leave his mom, and you don’t want to live! with his mom. Enter the incompatibility.
I told him I felt like a 3rd wheel at his house with his mom, their house would always be theirs, all the decisions id worry id be left out of. Financial things, etc. Like I'd never feel secure because I'd have nothing in my name, and from the way I grew up it's soo important and necessary for me to know I'll be okay financially and on my own.
This is exactly how it will be. Your boyfriend and his mom function as a couple in their home and if you move in, nothing will ever be yours. You won’t make decisions about the house or farm or finances, and when kids come into the picture your then-MIL will very likely have strong opinions on how to handle them as well. Don’t do this to yourself or to your hypothetical children. It also makes complete sense for you to want to be financially independent and have your own home and life. This situation will never, ever afford you that and you will always come second to mommy, which is not how a partnership and eventual marriage is supposed to be.
Run.