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Date: October 11, 2022
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You need to find out why she broke it off and now why she wants to get back together. If you are ok with both reasons then be a better boyfriend this time.
If not then you say I'm sorry I can't do this.
If you “can't” get laid, it's because you're a shitty person and nobody wants to be around you.
Your height may limit the number of women who would want to be with you romantically/intimately (if you were a decent person), but, it doesn't make that number of women zero.
A) never go back to that shithole house of his.
B) divorce him.
There is no coming back from physical abuse.
Yeah there was a story on here 3 or 4 months back.
A guy in his like 30’s parents divorced when he was like 10 because mom was having an affair with someone. Mom accepted all blame and didnt fight anything. Dad got full custody and son grew up cutting Mom out of life because of the affair, but still stayed close with Moms family like her sister.
Throughout the 20+ years since the divorce mom never tried to contact OP, but moms sister would always tell OP “theres more to the story that you dont know” and would hint that dad is to blame. But for those 20+ years they never told OP why, and moms sister would always just say “its not for me to say” but then would keep stirring the pot by bringing it up every time OP was around.
Well OP’s dad dies and thats when OP’s mom decides she wants to try to reconnect with OP, but by this point he’s in his 30’s and he hates mom so much that he straight up refuses. I mean i would too, 20+ years and you didnt even try to keep any sort of relationship with your son. Well there were multiple updates, and after like the 3rd update OP agrees to meet with mom.
Mom explains what the “more to the story” was, and it sounded like it was just the generic “dad was working 12+ hour shifts to provide for you and me while i was a stay at home mom, and i took advantage of it to sleep around with someone multiple times”. There was an age difference between mom and dad, but that was never used as a reason for the problems and mom didnt cheat until after they were already married for 8+ years. Mom says it was 100% her fault and she accepts all blame and thats why she never contacted OP throughout the years
OP begrudgingly decides to attempt to continue building a relationship with her, but it very much sounded like OP didnt want to and was likely going to cut her off again. Maybe theres a final update by now, but idk and i cant even remember what the original post was called
The new account is one of the million things that screams troll post.
I offered to give him a message because it's something that we previously talked about one time before when I was at his house. I don't see the issue with me making him a body cream to help him relax sometimes he has problems sleeping. And honestly that has nothing to do with the question. What you're saying doesn't make any sense. He didn't have to respond but he did.
If he thought, I was crazy or too clingy then why did he kiss me when I was at his house? Why didn't he tell me to leave?
If they’d known each other for so long and he was always platonic with her he just has to say “ you know when I said I love you it was because you are my friend and I wasn’t insinuating nothing more. I just want to make it clear as I don’t want anything to be awkward between us”
I don’t really see why he feels this way maybe the kiss and the hug was inappropriate and he knows it.
Although a strong abandonment fear is one core trait of BPD, you have to have 5 strong traits (of the 9) to exhibit a strong pattern of BPD traits. But you already know this.
Beware – your letter made me think of a worst case scenario he may be driving toward. He may be on the verge of breaking up with you but doesn't want to go until he has sex with you once, after putting up with your chastity for three years.
But he may also be worried about marrying someone not knowing how good (or bad) the sex life will be. You need to protect your interests. If you would feel used, violated, and compromised by having sex with a man who breaks up with you before marriage, don't risk it. His fears don't outrank yours. You have to balance them, and if they aren't compatible, then you two may not be compatible anymore either.
This is what I suspected: you are not immature. He’s controlling, and he calls any behavior he’d rather not deal with “immature” so he can blame you for his lack of support. The added bonus is that he can threaten you by saying that if you don’t grow up, he’ll be forced to break up with you. Of course, by “grow up,” he really means behave exactly as he wants you to, expect nothing of him, and support him in all things.
Rather than moving to his country, I suggest you seriously consider whether it’s wise to upend your life for someone you don’t know very well at all.
I require elaboration.
Unless you can totally distance yourself from this guy, you'd better give your boyfriend a heads up. If he has violent tendencies, you should discourage anything like that.
You’re 21. Entirely too young for settling. Break up with your gf. She also deserves more.
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They’re clearly not smart enough to notice you’d be a good person to keep around; considering there are many different types of intelligences, doubt they’re very smart on average to begin with.