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Date: October 12, 2022
Damn you OP’s girl? This sounds oddly personal.
Sounds like she just wasn't that into you. Mostly used you. Just move on, and learn from this.
Re: the frequency, to be honest I’m not sure. I didn’t want to pry and ask.
I know I can’t change her behavior, change has to be the person’s choice. I guess sometimes it’s hard to see you’ve changed though, and easier for someone else to see it. Especially because drug use can change slowly over time.
So maybe even just saying ‘hey I’m worried this is getting worse & I’m afraid for you” might get through.
My parents were not in an open marriage but my mom cheated and she would bring me to other men's houses I may not understand you completely but I understand the betrayal and I can't look at my mom the same again after that
How you feel is completely valid it's just such a strange situation being it doesn't have to be bad or good or whatever people's opinions are in the comments.
It was genuinely a strange situation that you should not have been exposed to and I'm sorry that you were exposed to it
I hope you can one day reconcile with your parents and I hope that they can see your perspective and I really hope that you get therapy as well good luck on your marriage and congratulations for your proposal mozel tov!
It sounds like you are self absorbed. You see your parents as only your parents and they owe you instead of people who have there own wants and desires. I don’t think therapy will help you as can’t see anything wrong with imposing your views on others.
He does work in a field that has very high rates of domestic violence
Hmm.
It sounds like they won't be a good match, but even if you tell her she probably won't listen. All you can do is keep an eye out for signs of DV and offer her support when needed.
They were non-monogamous for 16 months.
Yeah, that's fair enough. I have them blocked on everything but (they used to stalk my Instagram from time to time) Facebook I don't use Facebook often. And he has her blocked just on Instagram after knowing she joined that gym. But would definitely just drop it, block the rest and leave it It's just annoying having a reoccurring ex so consistently.
You fucked up big time. Journals are where a person writes their most wild thoughts. I’ve gone back over my own journals and absolutely wanted to die from embarrassment at what I’d written. But for people who journal, it helps is to get those big thoughts on paper and then work out what we’re actually feeling.
1) you violated her trust completely 2) you read things you were never meant to see
I don’t know how you come back from this. Trust in this relationship has been completely wrecked by both of you. Your wife now knows she has no chance of privacy to continue to think through her thoughts. You now have all this information you shouldn’t have about her thoughts. How do either of you come back from this?
Honestly, it’s too big for Reddit. You need to seek marriage counseling. And probably personal counseling as well. Still flabbergasted as to what would make you feel violating years worth or your wife’s private thoughts is acceptable.