I don’t think that she is keeping him from you(there is no evidence in the story) he just got a girlfriend and he doesn’t have as much free time as he had before in addition of that she became the person he tells everything and texts to all the time so she plays a bit of your “role” as well from the time when you were very close friends.
At some point, you're going to have to learn to be on your own, otherwise you'll be the perfect target for abusive men who prey on scared girls' insecurities. Most people start this around 18 when they leave for post-secondary. Since you missed that critical milestone, it explains why you feel inadequate in that way. Consider this to be your chance to experience freedom.
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Please stop wasting her time and break up with her. You have some serious work to do on your self before you should be in a relationship. You should be over the moon that this wonderful woman spends her time with you.
“You know, I decided that I agree with you. It can be a great way to meet new friends. I've turned on the same side of the app on and made a not that I'm in a relationship. I wonder how many guy friends I will meet.”
Then act completely dumb at all attempts to get you to shut down the app.
“No, no, I see your point. I'm chatting with a couple of nice guys. Look I've got to go. Let's chat latter.”
And never agree to deactivate it until A FULL WEEK after he deactivates his.
Not your problem, so don't care. Sounds like it wouldn't be enforceable to ask her to change her name. People hate their names all the time and change it legally without a marriage.
She's probably really hate her last name. My ex's new partner is legally changing her name b/c it's C*ck, and I know a guy who's last name is McMurder. Not to mention the boring last names that make you unremarkable. My last name is Smith, I share my first/last with literally tens of thousands of people. My first name is roughly 0.1% of the population in the US.
That's not even starting of the literally years it can take to get everything switched over (degrees, certificates, various insurances, medical records, ownership, titles, wills of other people, credit, bank accounts, government IDs, to name a few).
She is really great, and she was very open about it. Thank you for reaffirming that for me and making me realize I am overthinking this. I guess I am just weird with past flings, I know I have some trust issues from past relationships I need to work on clearly, lol. Thanks again for your input and making me realize it's all in my head.
Recently I'd changed my morning routine and it helped a lot in my productivity may be it would help more in controlling my emotions regarding relationship, thanks
Omg, you are tots right.
I don’t think that she is keeping him from you(there is no evidence in the story) he just got a girlfriend and he doesn’t have as much free time as he had before in addition of that she became the person he tells everything and texts to all the time so she plays a bit of your “role” as well from the time when you were very close friends.
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At some point, you're going to have to learn to be on your own, otherwise you'll be the perfect target for abusive men who prey on scared girls' insecurities. Most people start this around 18 when they leave for post-secondary. Since you missed that critical milestone, it explains why you feel inadequate in that way. Consider this to be your chance to experience freedom.
He's been grooming her since she was a child, hoping she'd eventually be ok with this
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Please stop wasting her time and break up with her. You have some serious work to do on your self before you should be in a relationship. You should be over the moon that this wonderful woman spends her time with you.
“You know, I decided that I agree with you. It can be a great way to meet new friends. I've turned on the same side of the app on and made a not that I'm in a relationship. I wonder how many guy friends I will meet.”
Then act completely dumb at all attempts to get you to shut down the app.
“No, no, I see your point. I'm chatting with a couple of nice guys. Look I've got to go. Let's chat latter.”
And never agree to deactivate it until A FULL WEEK after he deactivates his.
Not your problem, so don't care. Sounds like it wouldn't be enforceable to ask her to change her name. People hate their names all the time and change it legally without a marriage.
She's probably really hate her last name. My ex's new partner is legally changing her name b/c it's C*ck, and I know a guy who's last name is McMurder. Not to mention the boring last names that make you unremarkable. My last name is Smith, I share my first/last with literally tens of thousands of people. My first name is roughly 0.1% of the population in the US.
That's not even starting of the literally years it can take to get everything switched over (degrees, certificates, various insurances, medical records, ownership, titles, wills of other people, credit, bank accounts, government IDs, to name a few).
This is why men can’t be honest with women lol
Dogs are normally eating electronics?
She is really great, and she was very open about it. Thank you for reaffirming that for me and making me realize I am overthinking this. I guess I am just weird with past flings, I know I have some trust issues from past relationships I need to work on clearly, lol. Thanks again for your input and making me realize it's all in my head.
Recently I'd changed my morning routine and it helped a lot in my productivity may be it would help more in controlling my emotions regarding relationship, thanks
31m here, my best friend 28f has been in my life through a few relationships, and she's still here.
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