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Date: October 16, 2022
I now see it's likely my anxiety that's saying things might go wrong and there are people out there who might want to ruin my relationship. I will take individual therapy, thank you for commenting.
Wanting to have good sex is not the same as actually having good sex.
Tell him you will give it a try when he lets you peg him. (Not really). I'd just be curious of what he would say.
that you said you were jealous of his gold chain and nice clothing, because I’m trying to provide for both of us, I’m trying to work hot so we can both eventually have those things. It felt like you were telling me that you wish that I had a thick gold chain, that my shirts aren’t as nice as his, that you wish that I had shirts like his. And you touching a 14 year old kid’s gold chain, is extremely sexual.”
I think he's pushing his insecurities onto you. Seems to me like he feels threatened because he can't afford these things.
Your BF sounds really childish. Maybe he's still stuck in 9th grade.
Respectfully.. are you out of your fuckin mind?
Please leave him ?
You need to decide for yourself what is the line that your family can not cross to have a relationship with you and stick to it.
For example, you might sit your family down and say something like, “I have decided my boyfriend is right for me. Do you have any real character flaws to warn me about or real incompatibilities? He is my bf, dont worry, he won't be your bf. What is right for you in a partner is not the same as what is right for me. Starting now, you will not be insulting him or be rude to him or otherwise disrespectful of our relationship over the shallow things. If you insult his clothes when they are apropriate ill leave the event, or ill hangup the call, and you will apologize, or you won't hear from me . (Maybe something the shorter than that , but the point is if they act unfairly, ride again, you leave the family event early, or you just hang up)
(If you insist on trying to change your family members, you will only have like a 5% chance, but if you are going to try anyway watch Meghan Phelps-Roper TED talk about leaving the Westboro baptist church , using her 4 ideas is the only way I had any success more than zero when dealing with someone who is impossible or thinks very different than me)
Also, the slave remark! the projection is real it sounds like you have been the one slaving for your family paying for everything, and they dont want to lose you slaving for them.
Like real things that are predictors of a successful marriage (if that's in your future), are you both more or less on the same page or on agreement with:
Children: Do you want kids, how many , parenting philosophy
Goals: What are we trying to do 1 year 5 years 50 years.
Money: Will you be separate or joint , budgeting , retirement, spending , savings
in-laws: What is your united front when dealing with in-laws (sounds like this is good practice)
Spirituality / religion : Are you at least in agreement if not the same on this
Could the reason my gf has thoughts and feelings of her own and doesn’t simply accept me doing whatever I want, whenever I want without complaining be “daddy issues?”
tf?!
“I personally can only get along with certain types of people who not only talk and share things, but also ask back and have some interest in me and my life. I haven't been able to find that many people like this live or in real life,”
These kind of relationships take time and effort. You have to wade through the superficial stuff before you know each other well enough to move from acquaintance to true friendship. You have to do the work to get the relationships you want. Some people will become great friends. Others might stay acquaintances and that is ok. Also if you want people to take an interest in you, you have to be able to talk about interesting things. Do you have hobbies? Are you a sports fan? Do you volunteer? All these are great options that can draw people to you and be interested in your life.