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Yep it can be hard. So you’ve got a choice, what would you prefer deal with your siblings shit, or deal with your social anxiety to find better friends? Also just fyi, having people ignore you, yell at you, and not care about anything in your life, that can cause if not worsen social anxiety. So since you have social anxiety that’s even more reason to reduce the time you do end with them due to how they treat you.
Hi, I am deeply sorry for you. I would like to advise you to talk to him about it, but it sounds like that wouldn't help. I can't understand how it doesn't bother him in any way, if your partner is crying the first response should be to hug them ask what is going on and be there for them. Talk about how you feel wen he doesn't do this and if he can't see he does something insensitive and wrong dump him please. I know you love him but this is not healthy in any way. Good luck OP
DTMF. There are multiple issues. 1. This dude is super weirdly insecure. Who gets warped out of shape about celebrity crushes? 2. Probably more important, he's controlling. You're 3 months in and he's policing your speech and opinions. At 3 months, he shouldn't have an opinion about much of anything in your personal life, let alone feel free to express it unasked. Walk before he wastes more of your time and becomes more controlling.
I am so sorry. While your wife had a right to her feelings, she should've been honest with you long before this. There's nothing wrong with a misalignment of values, but there is when you don't open up about them and go your separate ways if it won't work.
I don't think there's any changing her mind. She's been trying to change her mind/heart in your favor for a long time it seems. If she hasn't done it, you can't. Divorce is the only option here. My heart truly does hurt for you.
What part of the story do you need to hear from him?! He's 25 and was 21 when they got together. Of course she feels she's raising someone else's child. He didn't even get the chance to grow and learn on his own before they started dating while she was a full grown adult. He probably thinks that's normal in a relationship. A lot of what he is doing sounds like weaponized incompetence which makes a ton of sense for this situation.
Listen, I’m about to blow your mind. When you use something that has a fairly universal meaning, only you are using for an alternate meaning, some people might not get it. They may ask about it. When they do, you have at least two options: a) something to the effect of “oh, you may not realize I meant x” or b) condescending assholery. It’s fine if you want to choose B but you may also get called out on that too. Hope that clears things up!
Its really not been all that long and I didn't know emotional affairs existed i thought i was being horrible not letting him have a friend because she is the opposite gender. I have been concerned about the zoning out and didn't know how to address it , i guess ive been uniformed and in denial these last 4 months. That's why i am still with him.
Its not that he has been unwilling to get therapy but more a fact that he cant get therapy yet . He's been on a waiting list for therapy for almost a year . He has had a fight with the doctor and asked for mood stabilizers in the meantime where he was supposed to be on a three week waiting list to see a psychiatrist to ask for mood stabilizers which he has had to chase up because its been much longer than three weeks. Health in mind wouldn't give him therapy because they said he needs specialist therapy. If we could afford private healthcare he would be in therapy.
Sometimes people don't want to admit there's an issue, and for a lot of people having tough conversations feels like the harder path to take if they can just carry on as usual . I know in the past I've needed sense knocking into me. Likewise with my wife!
I'm not taking sides, I'm just explaining what I would do.
Yep it can be hard. So you’ve got a choice, what would you prefer deal with your siblings shit, or deal with your social anxiety to find better friends? Also just fyi, having people ignore you, yell at you, and not care about anything in your life, that can cause if not worsen social anxiety. So since you have social anxiety that’s even more reason to reduce the time you do end with them due to how they treat you.
Haven't you already brought it up? What's your goal with trying that again?
Throw the man. Keep the cats. Plenty of men on both coasts
Hi, I am deeply sorry for you. I would like to advise you to talk to him about it, but it sounds like that wouldn't help. I can't understand how it doesn't bother him in any way, if your partner is crying the first response should be to hug them ask what is going on and be there for them. Talk about how you feel wen he doesn't do this and if he can't see he does something insensitive and wrong dump him please. I know you love him but this is not healthy in any way. Good luck OP
Not to mention she can pass it along to her newborn
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DTMF. There are multiple issues. 1. This dude is super weirdly insecure. Who gets warped out of shape about celebrity crushes? 2. Probably more important, he's controlling. You're 3 months in and he's policing your speech and opinions. At 3 months, he shouldn't have an opinion about much of anything in your personal life, let alone feel free to express it unasked. Walk before he wastes more of your time and becomes more controlling.
I am so sorry. While your wife had a right to her feelings, she should've been honest with you long before this. There's nothing wrong with a misalignment of values, but there is when you don't open up about them and go your separate ways if it won't work.
I don't think there's any changing her mind. She's been trying to change her mind/heart in your favor for a long time it seems. If she hasn't done it, you can't. Divorce is the only option here. My heart truly does hurt for you.
What part of the story do you need to hear from him?! He's 25 and was 21 when they got together. Of course she feels she's raising someone else's child. He didn't even get the chance to grow and learn on his own before they started dating while she was a full grown adult. He probably thinks that's normal in a relationship. A lot of what he is doing sounds like weaponized incompetence which makes a ton of sense for this situation.
Ooooh ignorance AND condescension!
Listen, I’m about to blow your mind. When you use something that has a fairly universal meaning, only you are using for an alternate meaning, some people might not get it. They may ask about it. When they do, you have at least two options: a) something to the effect of “oh, you may not realize I meant x” or b) condescending assholery. It’s fine if you want to choose B but you may also get called out on that too. Hope that clears things up!
Its really not been all that long and I didn't know emotional affairs existed i thought i was being horrible not letting him have a friend because she is the opposite gender. I have been concerned about the zoning out and didn't know how to address it , i guess ive been uniformed and in denial these last 4 months. That's why i am still with him.
Its not that he has been unwilling to get therapy but more a fact that he cant get therapy yet . He's been on a waiting list for therapy for almost a year . He has had a fight with the doctor and asked for mood stabilizers in the meantime where he was supposed to be on a three week waiting list to see a psychiatrist to ask for mood stabilizers which he has had to chase up because its been much longer than three weeks. Health in mind wouldn't give him therapy because they said he needs specialist therapy. If we could afford private healthcare he would be in therapy.
Stop thinking about it and focus on the present. No one can help you but you. If she's with you, she wants you. Not them.
What are her rights as a tenant in your jurisdiction? Find out what they are / if she has any and what you need to do to get her out legally.
end it. She has zero respect for an you, and every Ukrainian citizen.
Sometimes people don't want to admit there's an issue, and for a lot of people having tough conversations feels like the harder path to take if they can just carry on as usual . I know in the past I've needed sense knocking into me. Likewise with my wife!
I'm not taking sides, I'm just explaining what I would do.
Just because she's blood doesn't mean she's family.
Yes yes and yes !
If she was a friend you would cut her out of your life. Just because she's blood doesn't mean she gets a pass.
Cut them both outta your life and you'll be happier