Or, hear me out, she just doesn’t want to lose weight. OP is describing her as a very normal weight for an adult woman. The last sentence in your comment is just wild
3 years and a huge lesson learned, you can't trust her, she's immature and has narc traits. I'm so sorry she didn't value your dignity enough and the intimacy of your relationship.
I honestly don't know how to move on from that betrayal. Isn't that against the law?
Yea thank you that’s a really good point, i do have a lot of problems with guilt as I’m my previous relationship a few year a ago when I was younger I would cheat and didn’t feel any remorse until I matured and realised how fucked up it was.
I see a councillor just to talk about my anxiety in the relationship and have been dying to speak to her but haven’t been able to as she’s busy until our appointment later today so I’ve just been stewing on this and just throwing apologises at my girlfriend and thinking that the relationship won’t recover as we are very all over each other and have a deep relationship that I haven’t been this trusted before nor have I ruined trust this horribly so just trying to figure out the right approach
Yeah I messed up the begining and was to emotional. I started to think logically after some time but she noticed me getting too invested at the start. The things she says now about the state of our relationship honestly made me feel like a fool. I'm trying to keep myself in check. Maybe she is just carefull, maybe it is something else, should've know better.
And then we’ll see her here tomorrow: “my boyfriend took his cousin to the zoo, after I am the one that gave him the idea.”
So you were 16 and he was 27 when you met? Biggest red flag ever please leave friend.
It was exactly the answer you needed
Or, hear me out, she just doesn’t want to lose weight. OP is describing her as a very normal weight for an adult woman. The last sentence in your comment is just wild
Or maybe he just didn’t want to give up doing disgusting things
3 years and a huge lesson learned, you can't trust her, she's immature and has narc traits. I'm so sorry she didn't value your dignity enough and the intimacy of your relationship.
I honestly don't know how to move on from that betrayal. Isn't that against the law?
Yea thank you that’s a really good point, i do have a lot of problems with guilt as I’m my previous relationship a few year a ago when I was younger I would cheat and didn’t feel any remorse until I matured and realised how fucked up it was.
I see a councillor just to talk about my anxiety in the relationship and have been dying to speak to her but haven’t been able to as she’s busy until our appointment later today so I’ve just been stewing on this and just throwing apologises at my girlfriend and thinking that the relationship won’t recover as we are very all over each other and have a deep relationship that I haven’t been this trusted before nor have I ruined trust this horribly so just trying to figure out the right approach
Yea nothing good happens in private rooms so I wouldn’t believe anything he told you
The post itself and her comments make me question whether the roommates are truly that bad.
Yeah I messed up the begining and was to emotional. I started to think logically after some time but she noticed me getting too invested at the start. The things she says now about the state of our relationship honestly made me feel like a fool. I'm trying to keep myself in check. Maybe she is just carefull, maybe it is something else, should've know better.
She is just as accountable as the friend is.
When two people share equal responsibility for what happened, nobody is “predatory”