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Kinga, 28 y.o.
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Date: October 17, 2022
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Dont shit where you eat lol. Just kidding, I found myself in the same situation over the last six months. The sex was good and she was nice. It was really easy to keep it going with very little commitment/thought because we'd see each other at work and remember that each other existed. However, the convenience and familiarity had its drawbacks. Like her wanting to explore options with other people and me being oblivious and not giving her as much space as she needed. Or her picking back up where we left off when I wasn't really interested anymore yet l obliged bc it was easy and I was lonely.
The key is boundaries. Where do you see the relationship with this girl headed? If it's a strictly physical thing, you're mostly in the clear. Just continue treating her the way you have been to avoid confusion on either of your parts. Be clear about your intent and desires. If it was a one off, say that. If she made you feel like the only man in the world and you'd like a repeat every day forever, say that. Just dont make it weird. Keep things lowkey, like you guys didn't sleep together, while at work. So you dont make it awkward for your other coworkers or each other.
I’m not but I’m nearly sure he does
Give her consequences. She’s always late for you because you wait for her and she still gets included in activities.
Next time she’s late, leave without her. Or start the activity anyway. Eventually, she’ll get the message. And if she doesn’t leave.
People here saying she might have ADHD – yeah, but it’s on her to develop coping mechanisms. And so far she hasn’t needed to learn to.
It sounds like your gf didn't want to continue, so that put your off the mood, even after she said she wanted to continue your subconscious was stuck on her not being into it. If anything I think it shows your respect your gf & care about her.
Perhaps obvious but I suggest talking your your gf about the experience. If you agree to only initiate when you are both sure you want to have sex, that will help keep the mood. You could even put the ball in her caught, so when she initiates you know it's definitely go time.
What are you scared about?
It might sounds easier than it is but if you get to this point again & can't get very hot then try not to panic, that will only cause your circulation to send even less blood downstairs. Obviously piv sex is the goal but if you do foreplay, oral etc, then it might give you enough time to warm up. Women generally need more time to warm up to sex anyway, so that will only make the experience better for your gf. Also seeing your gf get sexual pleasure will likely sexually stimulate you, so make the chances of getting naked even high. Try to concentrate on her pleasure & yours should naturally follow.
I re read and definitely shot out like a cannon, I thank you for forgiveness for that for whatever it's worth. I've wanted to start a non profit for women trying to escape abuse and to empower them. I've been on both sides on the coin, I've been in really bad relationships and I've witnessed them.
I think knowing she can bounce back helps, whatever empowers her, helps. She does need to get out. The abuse will keep ebbing away at her self esteem and she'll erode away until there's nothing left. When I'd go to my friends, they'd say they just want to see me happy but also point out things that just don't make sense, and how strong of a person I really am. I had to know I was ok on the other side, whether it's emotionally, financially, or even physically.
The others are right about preserving your own sanity. You always need to make sure you aren't constantly putting others needs ahead of your own. It's ok to take a breather, but not so far that if she feels she's ready (an abused woman will take at least 7x to try to leave before they do, probably more of her not physically hitting her) ? No matter about that, you have to keep your head straight, don't blur your boundaries for anyone, you're the only one who has to live in your head. ???
He love bombed me in the beginning , used to call me daily for an hour in addition to messaging practically the entire day, also would call late night. So yes, I did have expectations
Ok. I can understand your thinking. Becaus your wife is eazy yo replace.
But if someone threathens your child in the same way? Would you save them with sex?
And do you have children?
It’s not a time share, it’s definitely her families. And I have mentioned it before, said that we need to find a date to go, and that I would love to visit specifically that area of Spain. And yet, other people went regularly and I didn’t get an invite
Run fast. Run far. This is very dangerous & abusive.
In 10 years of being with my nesting partner and 7 with my girlfriend neither they nor I have yelled or behaved like your partner.
The “normal” amount of this behavior is 0. It shouldn't be happening ever.
And just for the record an apology is the following.
Recognizing what you did wrong. Recognizing the negative effect this had on the other person. Coming up with a plan for the harmful thing to not happen again. (like going to therapy or simply not doing the harmful thing)
And most importantly imo 4. Not doing the harmful thing.
If your partner repeatedly does this after “apologizing” It's not an apology in my personal opinion.
Maybe transition things off snap chat and request his number.
Being able to see read receipts can generate a lot of overthinking.
I'd suggest asking for his number so its on a more personal basis, then following up with another hang out request. And if the pattern is the same, you're likely looking at a dead end.
You bit him until he bled?