Maybe if you aren’t creepy and go into this meeting not expecting more than what it is. But if you push things and come on too strong you’ll push her away.
My partner once told me that and I surprised him for valentine's as long as you remember to tell her she's sexy in both and act like it, I think it's great.
If it goes well you might encourage her to do it more often because it'll boost her confidence. Also set the scene so she feels it's worth “dressing up” for.
To be completely honest, I'm not really sure there are many women out there who would be interested being with someone who prioritizes their hobby over them all the time and doesn't have time for them.
There's nothing wrong with your sports goals right now, but it does seem like it's conflicting with your desire to start a family. I can't imagine anyone would want to settle down and start a family (what I'm reading is you want to have children) with someone who doesn't have time for them or their children. Why would they? Why would you want this anyway? To have a spouse and/or a child and not spend time with them is not fair to them. Children need to take priority, and it doesn't seem like you're willing to prioritize anything other than yourself right now. Again, there's nothing inherently wrong with that, but there is something wrong with having a kid or a girlfriend that you don't have any time for.
what did she say when you asked about why she hasn’t left, assuming that you did? if there’s not a reason and you’ve been urging her for months, i say move
Even the best relationships have bunps in their road. This seems a reaaaaally big one. Butnif you really care, and love eachother, I think this should be doable. Put in the work you need to, even if the chances are slim, best of luck to you!
The downvotes are crazy. Cause the whole high school could see their mom very hot and the bullying and clowning that would ensue would be enough to break anyone. Playing with fire there
I get what you're saying but she's not a malicious person at all.
She doesn't complain about me leaving and she accepts that I have to, it just affects her immensely.
She's someone who had a much more traumatic upbringing than I did and this is her very first relationship, so I don't think she knows how to navigate it yet.
That’s fine. Break up with him. Find another man who is more like you are looking for. Why are you wasting your time with him?
Send him back to his mommy
'the autism brigade' consisting of a single user?
I meant your whole post, not just your nasty comment. you seem to only be receptive to comments offering you uncritical support.
Maybe if you aren’t creepy and go into this meeting not expecting more than what it is. But if you push things and come on too strong you’ll push her away.
My partner once told me that and I surprised him for valentine's as long as you remember to tell her she's sexy in both and act like it, I think it's great.
If it goes well you might encourage her to do it more often because it'll boost her confidence. Also set the scene so she feels it's worth “dressing up” for.
To be completely honest, I'm not really sure there are many women out there who would be interested being with someone who prioritizes their hobby over them all the time and doesn't have time for them.
There's nothing wrong with your sports goals right now, but it does seem like it's conflicting with your desire to start a family. I can't imagine anyone would want to settle down and start a family (what I'm reading is you want to have children) with someone who doesn't have time for them or their children. Why would they? Why would you want this anyway? To have a spouse and/or a child and not spend time with them is not fair to them. Children need to take priority, and it doesn't seem like you're willing to prioritize anything other than yourself right now. Again, there's nothing inherently wrong with that, but there is something wrong with having a kid or a girlfriend that you don't have any time for.
what did she say when you asked about why she hasn’t left, assuming that you did? if there’s not a reason and you’ve been urging her for months, i say move
To me the big red flag is that he keeps leaving jobs even when he was getting promoted. Did he say why? Like was it for more money?
So him paying for it, yep ?.
But why do you want him to watch you piss on a stick.
Now if the purpose (or one of) is to punish him for being an arsehole and causing this in the first place, then also yep?
But otherwise why?
Even the best relationships have bunps in their road. This seems a reaaaaally big one. Butnif you really care, and love eachother, I think this should be doable. Put in the work you need to, even if the chances are slim, best of luck to you!
The downvotes are crazy. Cause the whole high school could see their mom very hot and the bullying and clowning that would ensue would be enough to break anyone. Playing with fire there
Thank you for the advice.
Meh.
People are actually thinking this is a genuine post. Really??
I get what you're saying but she's not a malicious person at all.
She doesn't complain about me leaving and she accepts that I have to, it just affects her immensely.
She's someone who had a much more traumatic upbringing than I did and this is her very first relationship, so I don't think she knows how to navigate it yet.