That's because lovebombing works extraordinarily well on unsuspecting targets. Lovebombing is designed to make a target feel special & truly understood. Until the lovebomber turns mean and starts fights and insults you about something as dumb as musical taste, and then the target is left scrambling to prove their worthiness. Which is exactly where the lovebomber wants you. It's like you're voluntarily walking into a buzzsaw here. Good luck OP, I wish you strength.
Very hot NO for me. You need to keep your finances separate. And if it’s about saving for a house, both should contribute to a joint account in both of your names that’s separate from your individual account
Yeah this was here only reason. If she felt that the quality of education would be better, that would be one thing. I just can't make sense of making significant financial decisions on something with very low probability.
Everyone who says this is generally insecure and secretly really doesn't trust you.
I think that at your age, solo traveling is fine. You even went above and beyond choosing an all-women hostel. The fact that he doesn't trust you is so mindboggling. Are you coming across that incompetent and unable to take care of yourself in his eyes or is he just insecure and afraid you're going to cheat on him?
Go travel alone. Let him complain and moan. Of course, update him with your itineraries and activity. Face time him as often as you'd like without impeding your travel. Of course, always be careful when traveling solo.
Nope neither of the 2 just a situation regarding her health that caused some conflict, and i got defensive.
That's because lovebombing works extraordinarily well on unsuspecting targets. Lovebombing is designed to make a target feel special & truly understood. Until the lovebomber turns mean and starts fights and insults you about something as dumb as musical taste, and then the target is left scrambling to prove their worthiness. Which is exactly where the lovebomber wants you. It's like you're voluntarily walking into a buzzsaw here. Good luck OP, I wish you strength.
Very hot NO for me. You need to keep your finances separate. And if it’s about saving for a house, both should contribute to a joint account in both of your names that’s separate from your individual account
I’m not crying you are
Yeah this was here only reason. If she felt that the quality of education would be better, that would be one thing. I just can't make sense of making significant financial decisions on something with very low probability.
Is she nursing? That will often be a cause. The good thing is, it’s temporary.
INFO: is this your first time traveling solo?
He says he trusts me but not other men.
Everyone who says this is generally insecure and secretly really doesn't trust you.
I think that at your age, solo traveling is fine. You even went above and beyond choosing an all-women hostel. The fact that he doesn't trust you is so mindboggling. Are you coming across that incompetent and unable to take care of yourself in his eyes or is he just insecure and afraid you're going to cheat on him?
Go travel alone. Let him complain and moan. Of course, update him with your itineraries and activity. Face time him as often as you'd like without impeding your travel. Of course, always be careful when traveling solo.