ask him straight up if the roles were reversed what would he think if a guy had a crush on you and he warned you about him but you kept brushing it off and then went to the party and left the party with that guy to go to his place while your BF is still at that party. What would he think about the whole situation? To me, it's shady as fuck and I'd be gone cause that is not what a partner does to one another.
OP: NO! YOU'RE ALL WRONG! I'M RIGHT YOU'RE WRONG! IT WAS MORE HER IT WAS MORE HER IT WAS HERRRRR!
Why do people ask questions and then argue with everyone who answers.
OP you didn't know if she was on BC or not. Next time ask before you stick it in. And if you don't know the person's stance on abortions or the date of their last std check up, then you don't know them well enough to risk not using a condom. Stop arguing and just grow up.
And rather suspicious.
ask him straight up if the roles were reversed what would he think if a guy had a crush on you and he warned you about him but you kept brushing it off and then went to the party and left the party with that guy to go to his place while your BF is still at that party. What would he think about the whole situation? To me, it's shady as fuck and I'd be gone cause that is not what a partner does to one another.
OP: Who's more at fault?
All of reddit: Both of you equally.
OP: NO! YOU'RE ALL WRONG! I'M RIGHT YOU'RE WRONG! IT WAS MORE HER IT WAS MORE HER IT WAS HERRRRR!
Why do people ask questions and then argue with everyone who answers.
OP you didn't know if she was on BC or not. Next time ask before you stick it in. And if you don't know the person's stance on abortions or the date of their last std check up, then you don't know them well enough to risk not using a condom. Stop arguing and just grow up.
If it were her own place… but she is in all depending on her mother and lives in mothers home.