Please read what I'm about to say with a kind voice in your head because I have a difficult time conveying tone in writing.
He could be almost anywhere. But where he's NOT is 'back.' And that's okay. There is literally nothing sane that you can do but wait for the cat to drag him back in.
As someone (46m) who has dealt with (and also who has refused to deal with) anxiety for decades please tell yourself that it will be okay. No matter what the outcome is, YOU WILL BE OKAY.
You are worth more than this stress. Please learn to feel it for yourself.
This is also a possibility especially based on his other post. I’m just wondering if it hadn’t leaped to physical yet because of her reaction to him filing for divorce.
Yes, I have professionals that I trust helping me and not a life coach or a pastor. I have been on so many different medications that have not worked and that is why I am in behavioral therapy as well.
That’s unfortunate, I genuinely don’t even have tiktok.
The thing is, I see nothing wrong with skipping or spinning in public( it’s not like I’m performing a flash mob in the street) and needing reassurance is related to mental health issues and I have resources to use to cope with these things and so talk to my trusted professionals about them, but unfortunately I am not perfect in my growth, which my partner understands. I wish I could not have as many issues as I do but some things will never change as they are just a part of me and some things just need time and more habits to form.
Take the decision for yourself concerning the baby: if youa rae a single woman, can you support you and the baby? Can you get a support network to help around?
For the relationship, it looks like it's fucked up either way: So let him make his own decision and be ready to split eventually.
I don't see how your couple can survive if he blames you to have the baby or you blame him because of an abortion.
Uninvite your mother so there will be room for your brother.
Please read what I'm about to say with a kind voice in your head because I have a difficult time conveying tone in writing.
He could be almost anywhere. But where he's NOT is 'back.' And that's okay. There is literally nothing sane that you can do but wait for the cat to drag him back in.
As someone (46m) who has dealt with (and also who has refused to deal with) anxiety for decades please tell yourself that it will be okay. No matter what the outcome is, YOU WILL BE OKAY.
You are worth more than this stress. Please learn to feel it for yourself.
These people are not your friends and neither is your girlfriend.
I would be devastated if my SO did this to me, it is a violation of trust and privacy.
This is also a possibility especially based on his other post. I’m just wondering if it hadn’t leaped to physical yet because of her reaction to him filing for divorce.
Yes, I have professionals that I trust helping me and not a life coach or a pastor. I have been on so many different medications that have not worked and that is why I am in behavioral therapy as well.
That’s unfortunate, I genuinely don’t even have tiktok.
The thing is, I see nothing wrong with skipping or spinning in public( it’s not like I’m performing a flash mob in the street) and needing reassurance is related to mental health issues and I have resources to use to cope with these things and so talk to my trusted professionals about them, but unfortunately I am not perfect in my growth, which my partner understands. I wish I could not have as many issues as I do but some things will never change as they are just a part of me and some things just need time and more habits to form.
Sometimes we are too close and we get blinded. Been there done that.
Yeah pretty much
Take the decision for yourself concerning the baby: if youa rae a single woman, can you support you and the baby? Can you get a support network to help around?
For the relationship, it looks like it's fucked up either way: So let him make his own decision and be ready to split eventually.
I don't see how your couple can survive if he blames you to have the baby or you blame him because of an abortion.
Thank you. I was so stunned when she first told me, that I really had no response except, “ok I hope you found whatever you were looking for.”
Go to Surviving infidelity.com. It helped me with a cheating wife.