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Date: October 11, 2022
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Hair pulling, in certain positions is a smaller step before choking. Spanking as well, definitely go with that before bringing whips or other external implements into the mix. Introducing wordplay as well can help build towards more. But not so much asking him to freestyle a script, give some guidance “Call me [X]” “Tell me I'm [X]” etc… That sort of thing gives him a chance to explore and maybe push his own limits. For you, it sounds like you know where you want to be, for him this is all new, testing his own boundaries. All of these are going to be first times for him.
It's all iterative as well, working out what is too very hot and too soft is part of it. Safe words and/or a traffic light system are good and necessary. Probably the traffic light system is best because it's not a binary yes/no, definitely helps work out limits and build trust in each other. It'll help deal with any anxieties he has of going to far, hurting you etc… or just having confidence in himself (the dom role does need that comfort and confidence to do it.)
I may have worded my comment wrong I said that he was homophobic, not for not wanting to date a bisexual person, that's not homophobic per se, that's just a preference, but for the reason he gives, that basically bisexual women don't exist.
Talk to her about truth. That you two should not keep secrets from eachother. If i were you i wouldnt mention her weight or food.
What are you worried about? What is the worst thing that can happen if shes eating ice cream at night? Are you worried she is secretly depressed?
Oh God. Alcohol makes it 10 times worse.
When I was in my early 20s, I also thought I knew all the things. My parents had been married 30+ years, I looked up to them, I’d had a couple longer term relationships, and figured you could make any relationship work if you loved each other enough. My arrogance was extraordinary.
I call it arrogance because now, in my late 30s, with a 12 year marriage that ended in divorce under my belt, I can tell you I knew very little about the reality of long term relationships. Or even what “love” was, aside from in theory. I was reasonably level headed, but had a ton of trauma I’d never processed and a good amount of damage from dating dudes who were much older than me. My point is that I didn’t know how much I didn’t know. In kind, you sounds very naive, and not at all in a place to make long term life decisions.
You mention some mental health challenges, what appears to be some high level codependency (immediately moving in with every boyfriend isn’t actually normal or healthy), and some deep insecurity that no dude will ever fix. You want what your parents have and sound as if you’re trying to manufacture that in this one and lock this guy down ASAP. The problem is he’s already proved that his word for forever doesn’t mean forever (divorced), so you’d not be guaranteed that future. It’s also WAY too early. People are usually on their best behaviour for the early part of the relationship, but time is what it takes to see how they really go about life.
Shelve the marriage fixation. Work on getting healthy: mentally, emotionally, physically, spiritually (whatever that looks like for you). See if this guy is still a good fit once you’re in a better place. I mean, you’re already living together as if you’re married…so the only thing that could change is access to finances (and debts), and a mountain of paperwork should it not work out.
The average 25 year old right now would be extremely lucky to not be living pay check to pay check. It is almost impossible to have a savings at this stage in her life the way the world is right now. They do not have it easy.
“Joe” sounds like Joe from the Netflix show “You”
I absolutely think people who cheat can change but it will have to be with someone else. That's the thing with trust, it's like gluing a broken glass together it's better to just start over with a new person. Not to mention you guys plan on getting married you can't start it off like this.
Also OP please don't think this was just one mistake or a moment of weakness, this has been happening for awhile while you were taking care of your son. Honestly I hate to say this but you have to DNA test your son (regardless of what happen he's your son, but you deserve to know the truth).
If this information was truly important to him, he would have made sure he received it before marrying you. Nothing good will come of you mapping out in graphic detail how other people fucked you before him. As long as you haven't lied to him, keeping things general is fine and appropriate.
Don't talk to her about her weight. Instead, if you want to encourage her to be healthy, make it about the two of you making healthy decisions. The simple act of going for a long walk together every day could have dramatic results.
Focus on good health, not on her body type.
Pretty painful cramping. It’s just a few hours, you’ll get through it.