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Play with my pussy [Goal Race]
Date: November 1, 2022
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Yop,
Just remind her that she unless she starts barking, she can't debate wih a dog. maybe if she brings her dog, he will be able to translate to yours.
I'm amazed by the need for validation… she needs your dog's approval and can't handle the rejection…
Well, this kind of delusional person should be avoided. If she can create this kind of drama with a dog, she will be ale to create much worse with/ for you.
What’s happening in his head is private. Back the fuck off and stop asking him incredibly intrusive questions, and he won’t have to lie to you.
We turn towards what is familiar and away from what is unfamiliar.
You have to recognise that you choose each and every one of these women because something in you resonates with them and their situation.
This will be because of beliefs you formed when you were younger.
Rather than looking at them and wondering what more you can do the stop them leaving, look at what it is about them that attracts you to them.
Once you understand what need you are fulfilling being the “father/protector/provider” rather than a partner to your girlfriends who are on a more equal footing to you, you can then begin to break the pattern and make relationship choices that are healthy, happy and long lasting.
This is of course easier said than done and something I'd recommend working on in therapy.
Fair point, it's possible but it feels a bit…odd in this context. I assumed shared finances would be from a joint account which they both have a card for. It otherwise feels a bit strange to me to ask your SO to use their card and their money to get them their gift even with that arrangement.
Expectations versus reality. It's a time honored problem for everyone, regardless of neurodivergence or not. I understand that the proposal wasn't what you had pictured. But it does look like he put a lot of effort into making a romantic proposal of marriage. That's a good sign because he clearly cares for you. Focus on that for right now, it's important.
Rather than focusing on what the proposal was not, try to think about what the wedding will be like. Maybe a small and intimate wedding with only immediate family would suit you. Perhaps dialing back your expectations (the picture in your head) and the wedding itself will be more helpful for you than worrying about a forest to walk in. You can walk in a quiet forest any other day that you want.
So feel your feels, by all means. And think on how you can lovingly let him know what you want and need in the future. Weddings are a tricky time in a relationship and learning how to navigate unexpected situations is a very good skill to learn together.
Ok then. I disagree and think you’re holding his fantasies against him and expecting your own to be taken in stride. And also that he’s done anything at all wrong in this case and so you have nothing to be troubled by. But if you’re now determined to be upset by it, the two of you need to continue to communicate and to hopefully come to either a compromise or done understanding. Good luck.
Why not make a living will that has your wishes established and legal? Put in the living will what you want done for you medically. You have a copy, and your doctor has a copy, and your husband and sister have a copy. This takes away any doubts or concerns that anyone may have, and it will take away everyone's ability to fight. No one will get hurt if you have a living will that specifies your treatment and wishes.
I can understand that. Couple things:
she’s really into hiking and outdoors etc. I used to be much fitter until the first year or so passed and I guess I got comfortable and eventually out on weight. Not only did that kind of affect her, but I also struggled to keep up with her on outdoors things. I’m a good skier and mountain biker and she likes those things too, so we did that together a lot. But not being able to go out hiking and seeing beautiful places together affected her – I think she felt like I didn’t bring any excitement and that I was just turning into a lazy slob with no motivation. I do agree to some extent. This also ties in with the following:
I haven’t left my home town (where she and I both live!). I’ve had a good job and various other circumstances that have always made me decide to stay. She on the other hand is from another country altogether and has travelled and lived in a few different places. so she mentioned how she felt I had no drive or motivation to go anywhere or do anything; that I was just stuck in the same old routine. I half agree but also, when she moved to my country she had finished College, done a summer job and then had an open book. I feel like I haven’t really ever had that opportunity. Not an excuse, but I think we see it slightly differently.
There’s some other smaller things that probably add up too. Overall I guess she ended up just not feeling excited to see me or hang out with me. Certainly we lost our romantic spark, even though I did try to reignite it – there was a glimmer of hope one day when we began to do stuff one night but she pulled the pin and said she wasn’t feeling it after about 10 minutes (totally her right to do that).
The way I see it, these are mostly things I had opportunities to change but I guess I felt comfortable and didn’t challenge myself. Now I’m seeing the repercussions of that
it's possible that his behavior could be a sign of dissatisfaction with the relationship or a lack of emotional intimacy
talk to your boyfriend about it, express your feelings and concerns but also listen to his perspective
consider seeking the support of a counselor or therapist, because they can help you both navigate the situation and work through any underlying issues that may be contributing to the problem
My wife is was exactly like you at your age, clubs and raves! I didn't mind the occasional night out, but it wasn't as much of my scene as it was hers.
That said, I didn't make her feel bad about it or make a big deal of it. My main concern was safety above and beyond anything else.
What this comes down to is trust and recognizing that each partner in a relationship is allowed their own personal time to do as they please with (within reason). You can't on-line any other way…
… so you found out his kink (which is everything apparently, are you sure he didn’t just mass download an entire website server?). and now you are blaming him for what you found okay … yeah. break up with him. i think he is too good for you.
More importantly, do some self-reflection to figure out why it is your preference. If I told you, you'd dismiss it.
What did he say or do? It matters.
My boundary would be to leave his ass.