Accountability starts with accepting blame. Right now you are 100% like every other cheater in existence- a hundred excuses and unable to admit the fault lies inside your character.
By pretending outside sources are the reason you can't behave, you show that you are never to be relied upon because any temptation or lapse in judgment can draw you from your partner.
Accountability.
“I have cheated and am a cheater. I have a problem that I need to fix.”
This is what you need to say. Not to us, but to yourself. Until then I would caution any woman away from you and say you deserve the partner you have because neither of you should be allowed to be out and about hurting other people while you have no business being in a relationship in the first place.
But that would require accountability, right? And you have yet to admit you have a problem. Please stop deflecting, its embarrassing.
I’m not saying a ton, but they need to meet with more than one. They need to find one that fits their needs. So meeting with 3 is not a bad thing. You don’t go with the first AND ONLY one you meet.
My wife doesn't even drive (legally blind), and we call it “our car” because her money goes into the account to pay for it, too. Not everyone fits into this box some people are using for this. Only time I've ever said my vehicle is when I worked tons of overtime to buy a motorcycle. That was mine. The car is ours
How dare you say humans are animals! We have thoughts and feelings unlike animals that are just interchangeable objects! /s
Though sadly way too many people feel this way, people like OP's boyfriend.
These excuses are disgusting.
Accountability starts with accepting blame. Right now you are 100% like every other cheater in existence- a hundred excuses and unable to admit the fault lies inside your character.
By pretending outside sources are the reason you can't behave, you show that you are never to be relied upon because any temptation or lapse in judgment can draw you from your partner.
Accountability.
“I have cheated and am a cheater. I have a problem that I need to fix.”
This is what you need to say. Not to us, but to yourself. Until then I would caution any woman away from you and say you deserve the partner you have because neither of you should be allowed to be out and about hurting other people while you have no business being in a relationship in the first place.
But that would require accountability, right? And you have yet to admit you have a problem. Please stop deflecting, its embarrassing.
Ok but should he tell his brother, since that’s the actual thing he has control over
Get out ur feels and get in his shoes
I’m not saying a ton, but they need to meet with more than one. They need to find one that fits their needs. So meeting with 3 is not a bad thing. You don’t go with the first AND ONLY one you meet.
I said this above but my school had a what was I wearing for men and women who have Been assualted
Sooooo many children’s clothes, so many casual, oversized clothing
It doesn’t matter what you wear. No one rapes based on clothing, if someone wants to rape they’re going to
My wife doesn't even drive (legally blind), and we call it “our car” because her money goes into the account to pay for it, too. Not everyone fits into this box some people are using for this. Only time I've ever said my vehicle is when I worked tons of overtime to buy a motorcycle. That was mine. The car is ours
Ig yeah thanks for ur opinion much appreciated ♥️
I guess you could call it cheating in a sense. You could also say she may have been groomed and victimized by a predator.