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It just feels tacky?
True but I recall OP mentioning that she has BPD
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Anything you could want. Obviously not everything he could want.
As someone who’s a small town girl now temporarily living in a city, I very much understand his desire to move back. The city I on-line in is probably as great as a city can be for someone who loves the outdoors, but it’s still a city and I can’t wait to move out into the countryside. And way further than an hour away from a big city.
If he decides to give up money, the relationship will not be the same though, he will resent them for doing so.
Your admiration and respect. Ahahahahaha.
I mean. Ok. I admirehow he’s managed to leverage his unemployed broke depressed squalor-loving ass into getting you to be his mom?
Like. Kinda respectthe audacity I guess?
I'm the only one who utilizes the tools that the therapist gives us, and I'm the only one in individual therapy working on myself.
I get that your marriage is very unbalanced, you’re doing not just the heavy lifting but nearly all of it. However, I think you should go to counseling together. Just a hunch but when/if you announce your divorce he will be completely blindsided. You’ll be telling him you’re giving up on the marriage without letting him try to fight for it. Go to CC if for no other reason than you can turn off the guilt because you had done everything possible to make it work. Second thing I would suggest is to separate first while going through the therapy. Why? Because maybe he can change. Most people are kind of “path of least resistance” personalities. If there’s an easy way to get thru life, that’s the course they will take. Force them off that easy course and most can and will change. Whether that will be enough for you to stay………..
It’s very clear you still love him or you would have done this years ago. Everyone has faults but when we get married they are “perfect.” Well maybe not perfect after awhile, a little longer he’s a bit irritating and eventually insufferable. They haven’t changed, just the way we perceive them has changed, our eyes opened a bit. So the question becomes, how much could he change if he had to and can you change your perception of him, if he does?
If you do end up together, I would suggest simplifying your lives with the children grown (not counting your husband) downsize into a condo. Have set household jobs, you’re probably going to have to train him to clean etc the way you like to see it but once he gets going, let him do things his way. End your part in working for his company, if he can’t afford to hire someone, then he should close shop. I worked for myself many years, some years my wife made more, some I did. From the very beginning all the money that came in went in one account, it was never my money, it was our money. It’s not a way to quantify things.
The other thing is maybe look honestly at his business. Since you’ve done work for him, I think you would have some strong ideas about whether or not this could be profitable and make much more than it is currently. If you think it could make money with a few changes, announce that your unpaid labor has bought you a partnership in his business and lay out the changes that will make it work. If his business will never pay off, encourage him to get a regular job or go completely house husband and he does all the chores and cooking (send him to cooking school if necessary).
I guess after reading a lot of cheating stories on here, I hate to see two people who actually love each other not make it. Try everything and if it doesn’t work, then you can hold your head up high knowing you did everything you could. Good luck, I hope things work out for you in the best possible way.