Don't be little yourself for another person. If he doesn't like you or love you anymore. It isn't your fault. You have a responsibility now, and if he doesn't want to be there, then you just lost a burden. When you be little yourself to a person, that just shows he has a hold of you and will make it worse for you. Be straight and ask, it will hurt, but it is better to know than to have that question going around your head
Send wishes and explain her you are busy you can't attend the wedding, you are not her best friend and she is Just your ex so no biggie if you don't have any feelings explain her everything lookout for comments from some immature who will say you are pity or bitter for not attending and don't care about them.
Get the name of the discord server and give it to the police. At the end of the day, there are predators that need to be caught and the authorities need to know.
So this guy, who is helping you raise ANOTHER man’s child, who never goes out, who almost never drinks, who the majority of the time hangs out with you and does his best to make you happy probably after he’s finished working very hot to take care of you and YOUR kid, instead of going out and partying with his boys, who from what you say is a very decent dude and a good man to you, finally goes out to a party that has ONE stripper, that’s paid to dance, and receives four lap dances, not head, not sex, but four lap dances, and you want to end the relationship with this guy that wants to marry you? This does not sound smart at all. The fact that you’re weighing everything he’s done for you and YOUR kid, not his kid, against him having what sounds like some much needed fun, doesn’t make a lot of sense. Sounds like you don’t appreciate what you have and regrets will surely follow. But go ahead and be the single baby man of two dudes lol!
I know but it’s really naked because I do really love her. I don’t want this to happen and I’m trying my best to do it impartially. It’s just I can’t argue that it was a year ago and the fact that I’m only now saying something makes it so hot. I always feel really unconfident in my feelings so i don’t know if I wanna feel validated or just slightly better about it…
Though when his flatmate asked who he is cussing at and he said it wasn’t directed towards a person but the situation, the fact that he refused to leave was a little scary. I’ve known him for a long time but he definitely made me feel unsafe in that moment.
She always tells me where she is going and who’s she seeing, she even tells me when she’s having a movie night with people over discord. So why now conceal the fact and avoid the question when I ask?
Don’t get me wrong, I am trying to understand her reasoning since she’s always volunteered the information freely before. I could absolutely be overthinking and I am not angry, just confused.
Don't be little yourself for another person. If he doesn't like you or love you anymore. It isn't your fault. You have a responsibility now, and if he doesn't want to be there, then you just lost a burden. When you be little yourself to a person, that just shows he has a hold of you and will make it worse for you. Be straight and ask, it will hurt, but it is better to know than to have that question going around your head
Send wishes and explain her you are busy you can't attend the wedding, you are not her best friend and she is Just your ex so no biggie if you don't have any feelings explain her everything lookout for comments from some immature who will say you are pity or bitter for not attending and don't care about them.
Get the name of the discord server and give it to the police. At the end of the day, there are predators that need to be caught and the authorities need to know.
Run like the wind.
So this guy, who is helping you raise ANOTHER man’s child, who never goes out, who almost never drinks, who the majority of the time hangs out with you and does his best to make you happy probably after he’s finished working very hot to take care of you and YOUR kid, instead of going out and partying with his boys, who from what you say is a very decent dude and a good man to you, finally goes out to a party that has ONE stripper, that’s paid to dance, and receives four lap dances, not head, not sex, but four lap dances, and you want to end the relationship with this guy that wants to marry you? This does not sound smart at all. The fact that you’re weighing everything he’s done for you and YOUR kid, not his kid, against him having what sounds like some much needed fun, doesn’t make a lot of sense. Sounds like you don’t appreciate what you have and regrets will surely follow. But go ahead and be the single baby man of two dudes lol!
Just face it. You’re being replaced. Best to just cut ties and move on.
I know but it’s really naked because I do really love her. I don’t want this to happen and I’m trying my best to do it impartially. It’s just I can’t argue that it was a year ago and the fact that I’m only now saying something makes it so hot. I always feel really unconfident in my feelings so i don’t know if I wanna feel validated or just slightly better about it…
Though when his flatmate asked who he is cussing at and he said it wasn’t directed towards a person but the situation, the fact that he refused to leave was a little scary. I’ve known him for a long time but he definitely made me feel unsafe in that moment.
Girl idk what to tell you, you know what to do.
Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, umm you know the rest.
There’s no fixing a cheater fyi
She always tells me where she is going and who’s she seeing, she even tells me when she’s having a movie night with people over discord. So why now conceal the fact and avoid the question when I ask?
Don’t get me wrong, I am trying to understand her reasoning since she’s always volunteered the information freely before. I could absolutely be overthinking and I am not angry, just confused.
She should have told him that she fucked his brother before marrying him… are you people ok??? Why are these people trying to downgrade OP's feelings?