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Nope….sorry….that sort of “if-you-really-loved-me”-leverage is pretty close to
“emotional blackmail”. Your SO is having issues with your family. Got it.
That does NOT automatically make it a “me-or-them” situation.
Don't make it one nor have it dictated to you.
he just sounds so insecure and controlling.
so happy that isnt the case for you, though, beause youre right, it shouldnt be an issue at all.
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Crappy ex-fiance but stand up friends. You'll be fine. As long as YOU DONT TAKE THAT POS BACK!
She's wrong AF for that. You have every right to feel upset.
I think we're (more or less) on the same wavelength as well but where our differences in advice lie, are more down to us having different life experiences.
For example, whilst you mention that you have seen “miscommunication too often”, my experience has often been the opposite in life and rather than things being miscommunicated, I typically go astray when I don't actually read the writing that's there on the wall because I was brought up to do stuff like give people the benefit of the doubt (which is also so easily rationalized). So a big lesson I've had to learn in life, is not just looking out for the writing on the wall, but really mentally taking it onboard too (& acting on it).
“I think it's a little overkill to create a scenario of the husband escalating though”- This too is based in my personal experiences though. I've had to deal with some REALLY crazy nutcases in the past. Like, shit you would not believe actually happens to people IRL. So my lesson has been thoroughly learnt: Never put it past people to do anything.
An emotion like insecurity is obviously relatable, but the way the husband behaving is (IMO) already so extreme & abnormal, I do believe that things will escalate if the situation goes on unchecked for much longer. Being in a crazy relationship dynamic is like the frog in a boiling pan of water analogy; the full-blown crazy is never there when you first enter the pand (or otherwise you'd never enter the relationship to begin with!), but it builds up slowly over time and whilst you do know things are getting bad, you also get so conditioned to the abnormality that you don't act on things until they're at boiling point (its also common in such situations that you don't realize how crazy were exactly either until you're long gone out of the relationship).
(Based on my experience of dealing with crazy people), if I was this guy, I would actually genuinely be very worried for myself.
find a new husband .. wtf kind of behaviour is that …
Bad timing on your end. You just had sex so he would probably agree with anything you say as he goes into his sleep coma. Why would you turn sexy time into off putting time. Get a grip of yourself. You should probably work on your self esteem before you date or you will just repeat the same mistake over and over again.
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Really low effort.
Disappointed.
Therapy
You go to lots and lots of therapy because you have no business whatsoever being in a relationship
You just assaulted someone while it sounds like he’s been nothing but good to you. If you were male there’s a reasonable chance you’d be in jail right now, just to put in perspective how serious this is
Leave this poor man alone and handle your issues before you drag someone else into this mess
You look joyous and radiant in that photo. Don’t let him rob you of that.
He doesn’t have the appreciation, respect, self-assuredness, or maturity for a relationship.
So your relationship is based on her lying to u and being comfortable enough to go as far as brag about it to u…. yea… thats a nude pass…. what else is she lying about or WILL she lie about in the future… “I swear im not fucking my coworker, i promise.”
Yeah that’s how it feels thanks
He could be really gay, and this is how they communicate.
I don’t disagree. However some forms of lying are illegal, like perjury or fraud. That was just a lot to go into in one post, so I stuck with the immediate situation.
Putting you down is a part of her character. You can't have all the good parts without her shitty attitude. You don't get to cherrypick.
Friend, she is NOT the one.
Find someone whose toxic trait is something harmless like collecting too many houseplants or something else you can deal with.
A partner is supposed to be a safe person.