I would say “yes mother we are going on an overnight trip exclusively to fuck because we obviously don't have sex other than when we go on overnight trips”. In this case be shameless and unfuckwithable the more you cater to your mother the worse she's going to act so put an end to it now. If she says “people are going to talk” ask her who tf she knows that works at the place you'll be staying at.
Your man is a arsehole. He clearly isn't looking to change so don't expect that from him anytime soon. I don't know what kind of advice you are looking for but you need to dump his ass.
Well for starters, it won’t be every other month once the child is older and is in school.
But yeah, if you’re this uncomfortable after 3 days then this doesn’t seem like a good fit.
Being a stepparent can be challenging but the success factor there is more around what your partner’s boundaries (or lack thereof) are. And while kids are ultimately #1 when it comes down to it, getting a babysitter so you two can go out isn’t unreasonable.
I dunno. I’ve been in your shoes and felt some similar feelings but at the end of the day, this is the situation in front of you and you have to decide if you’re willing to give it a try or not.
I’d recommend talking to a therapist who specializes in blended families. I think you’d get a lot of good insight.
His feelings are valid. Some men would look at you not disclosing this earlier on as lying by omission. There are men that dislike a lot of makeup because they view it as a lie. It sucks that your self image is hurt by this, but that's not his fault.
Your feelings are also valid. You don't see this the same way as he does and find it hurtful and you're happy with your additions.
I think this needs to be a larger discussion between you two. You also need to know this may lead to a breakup depending on how strong his feelings are on this area. This is also a learning opportunity into how men think and feel. Some men will see your fake boobs as a lie and be turned off by them. It may be best to bring up the fact you have fake boobs earlier on so this doesn't happen again if you and your bf do end up going your separate ways. Nothing wrong with fake boobs, but not everyone sees it the same way.
So I asked why he took off and he says it’s because he’s old fashioned and leaves women things to the women. He also thought it looks silly to be a man in the makeup section. He doesn’t like discussing things we feel differently about in detail because if he gives his reasoning, he feels like I will just try to convince him he’s wrong. To be fair, my follow up questions can come off that way
I would laugh if this wasn't actually your real life. I literally couldn't write a shittier man if I tried. “Sexist dumbass who thinks he's cool badgers girlfriend into subbing for him because he thinks being a Dom is alpha” is the grossest cringiest trope on the planet.
This is not healthy, he is not a good man, please leave him.
I didn’t even piece this together holy shit
I would say “yes mother we are going on an overnight trip exclusively to fuck because we obviously don't have sex other than when we go on overnight trips”. In this case be shameless and unfuckwithable the more you cater to your mother the worse she's going to act so put an end to it now. If she says “people are going to talk” ask her who tf she knows that works at the place you'll be staying at.
Your man is a arsehole. He clearly isn't looking to change so don't expect that from him anytime soon. I don't know what kind of advice you are looking for but you need to dump his ass.
Well for starters, it won’t be every other month once the child is older and is in school.
But yeah, if you’re this uncomfortable after 3 days then this doesn’t seem like a good fit.
Being a stepparent can be challenging but the success factor there is more around what your partner’s boundaries (or lack thereof) are. And while kids are ultimately #1 when it comes down to it, getting a babysitter so you two can go out isn’t unreasonable.
I dunno. I’ve been in your shoes and felt some similar feelings but at the end of the day, this is the situation in front of you and you have to decide if you’re willing to give it a try or not.
I’d recommend talking to a therapist who specializes in blended families. I think you’d get a lot of good insight.
He told you hed cheated previously and you carried on regardless, how can you be sure she'll do any different?
His feelings are valid. Some men would look at you not disclosing this earlier on as lying by omission. There are men that dislike a lot of makeup because they view it as a lie. It sucks that your self image is hurt by this, but that's not his fault.
Your feelings are also valid. You don't see this the same way as he does and find it hurtful and you're happy with your additions.
I think this needs to be a larger discussion between you two. You also need to know this may lead to a breakup depending on how strong his feelings are on this area. This is also a learning opportunity into how men think and feel. Some men will see your fake boobs as a lie and be turned off by them. It may be best to bring up the fact you have fake boobs earlier on so this doesn't happen again if you and your bf do end up going your separate ways. Nothing wrong with fake boobs, but not everyone sees it the same way.
How do you know for certain there’s no affair?
You broke up because she’s disrespectful. Nothing has changed.
Why would you reconsider?
He could be twice your age , just find someone closer to you.
This isn’t a relationship question. Lots of people have a fear of flying.
It’s just a line, he’s just not into u anymore
So I asked why he took off and he says it’s because he’s old fashioned and leaves women things to the women. He also thought it looks silly to be a man in the makeup section. He doesn’t like discussing things we feel differently about in detail because if he gives his reasoning, he feels like I will just try to convince him he’s wrong. To be fair, my follow up questions can come off that way
I would laugh if this wasn't actually your real life. I literally couldn't write a shittier man if I tried. “Sexist dumbass who thinks he's cool badgers girlfriend into subbing for him because he thinks being a Dom is alpha” is the grossest cringiest trope on the planet.
This is not healthy, he is not a good man, please leave him.