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Date: December 5, 2022
I would like it so, left conscience did not ruin me
Thanks for the advice brother! I’ve definitely noticed she doesn’t take compliments well so I’ve tried to shy away from putting her on a pedestal in person. I don’t think I’m ready to run just yet tho I know it may not end the way I want it too but I’ve gotten so much out of this already that I’ll risk it and if it ends I’ll try to take all the positives and carry them forward.
She may be depressed . Staying at home w/ 3 little children is difficult, lonely , boring & can be depressing .
No. Your savings and investments are none of their business. If it gets serious, after moving in together, or future planning, etc.
Yes I know she didn't, you did, and I explained why that doesn't work or help come to a common understanding. It can be naked to hear someone when you feel they've hurt you and I agree with comments telling her to give it space and time. I didn't say she did anything wrong either. Rather than therapy I think education about female anatomy (where their main erogenous zones are etc) and that different partners prefer different things on a wide scale. Demonising someone struggling with insecurity and your “advice” that they “should just get over it” is hardly helpful
There is absolutely zero evidence that this is related to sexism. You are projecting. This is a you issue, not a gun issue.
Also, when have you heard of a couple who live! together, share rent and utilities but both partners only do and pay for their own food?
I think this is more common than a couple living together, both making fine money, and the one making less money paying for all the groceries.
Also, to be clear, she's paying for cleaning supplies and internet, not the other utilities–at least according to the information we have in the post. Where I online, the cost of cleaning supplies plus internet is barely even a quarter, at most one third, of the cost of other utilities. That's a not insignificant additional cost
Even if only her own, how do you see this as a partner and not ask 'is this feasible? Are you overstretching because you feel like you have to match my input?'
Again, I think we agree on the boyfriend being shitty but I think you need to be open to the possibility of him being oblivious. A lot of people are jumping to the conclusion that she's paying more in total but I'm pretty sure she would have articulated it if it were true. My point is that unless we can be sure that he knows she's paying more than him in total, it's not right to just assume what you're assuming.
The main question is what's fair in the relationship. It's definitely not fair for her to do all the cleaning. I would also be annoyed to have to do all the grocery shopping (though, again, that's not explicitly what she claims so I'm not going to jump to that conclusion just yet). I'm in a pretty similar financial situation to her–my girlfriend makes significantly more money than me–and we split basically everything 50/50. There may come a time when my girlfriend covers a larger percentage of things, or when we share our funds, but I don't expect that of her, especially not now.
It sounds to me like OP resents certain inequitable aspects of their relationship, but doesn't communicate any of it clearly (just as it sounds like he may resent having to pay more for an equal share of an apartment). Instead of communicating, though, she seems to have decided in her mind that the payment arrangement they made 'covers some of that gap', so when he threatened to make her share an equal portion of the rent (which I don't think is necessarily unreasonable unless he's forcing her to live! above her means) those other uncommunicated resentments suddenly came to the fore again. I see a lot of super charitable readings of her situation with everyone immediately judging her boyfriend, but in reality I think they both bear some responsibility and both need to express themselves more directly.
I third that. Burn it and then get yourself ice cream! 🙂
Omg first I listen/read your post like every 3 months. Second. What is in the letter??? Genuinlyni hate suspense. I get you are a real person with real emotions. But this is a story which I will tell my kids. I need to know what it's in the letter