none of us know all of the details of your relationship, but i assume most of us are speaking from a perspective of experience and age. i know it doesn't seem like it now, but your view of this relationship will likely be wildly different in 10 years. you're too deep in it now to realize. no one is trying to patronize or infantilize you, but with an age gap this size when you are barely coming of age, there are truly no innocent motives when a man of his age decides to date an 18 year old. i'm sure you both care about each other deeply, but there is no way for this dynamic to be equal. good luck op, be safe.
thank u, i'm going to ask her.
That’s illegal. Leave this guy ASAP. He doesn’t care about you!
I’d say that’s a gross over generalization
none of us know all of the details of your relationship, but i assume most of us are speaking from a perspective of experience and age. i know it doesn't seem like it now, but your view of this relationship will likely be wildly different in 10 years. you're too deep in it now to realize. no one is trying to patronize or infantilize you, but with an age gap this size when you are barely coming of age, there are truly no innocent motives when a man of his age decides to date an 18 year old. i'm sure you both care about each other deeply, but there is no way for this dynamic to be equal. good luck op, be safe.
I’m pretty sure “what is best for him and his trauma” would be to go to therapy. Which he thinks is a scam
Set up your own account t and message him with “fancy meeting you here.” Then block and walk