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Date: October 9, 2022
I wish I knew how to! I have a therapist and read a ton of books on attachment theory, trauma healing, relationships, etc, but with her I’m simply at a frustrating loss. Comfort too much and that fear becomes anxiety provoking. Not enough and that fear also provokes anxiety. And that line moves constantly! I’m just trying to be steady and stable so she can lean when she needs to, and know I’m not running away when she needs space. Being the best communicator I can do it will help her feel safe doing the same.
That's a lot of info. Personally, I've only jerked it if I hadn't had it in a minute just so it wouldn't be a wham bam thank you ma'am BUT I went right back into battle!!! If he's pulling his goalie and taking the team off the ice….that's not cool! You deserve to be happy also. Good luck, I sincerely hope you get past this.
As the father of three grown children…I can't imagine what it's like to live this nightmare, my heart is aching for you both. Every word you wrote just tore at me, I'm so deeply sorry for the loss you've suffered. I'm sure just dragging yourself through each day is a challenge in itself and the only thought that immediately comes to mind is to possibly find a third party to intervene on your behalf but I'm assuming that is part of what therapy is doing. Patience is likely the only possibility and understanding that it's likely just raw emotion, emotion that makes little sense that is driving many of your wifes responses at this point. I'm sorry I can't offer more advice, and I know we don't know each other , but if you were here, I would hug you and cry with you, and ask you to tell me the most wonderful memories you have… I'm so sorry…
We disagree then, because I don’t think it’s at all unreasonable to not want to date people who do things or behave in ways you don’t want to be involved with. Drinking and drugs are reasonable thing to have boundaries around, imo, and I say that as someone who does both.
Is it just the behaviours in question that make you say it’s an unreasonable request? Would it be ok if it was something else?
This can't be real…reminds me of another post about asian girl before
The shit people put up with is mind-boggling to me.
Far more likely it’s due to changes in her physiology than yours.
Noses and ears grow throughout one’s lifetime. ( That’s part of what makes old people look old.). Penises, not so much.
One possible exception to that is weight loss: reducing the fat pad in front of the pelvic bone can “un-bury” some amount of shaft length. Doesn’t change girth, though.
I know how hurtful that must be to read that but I wouldn’t give up on this relationship. You found a guy who genuinely loves you! Your looks will fade with age. You have in writing that your guy loves you for you
I understand poly but sometimes I see the way they comment as if their lifestyle, communication, confidence are superior to others. If you see the type of people who are in those open relationships you can understand why they are like that and why it works for them whether its good or bad. I even knew someone in a poly relationships but they acted like they're the center of it all and expected their five significant others to be their primary and got mad at her partners when they were with their other partners. i also know some that are happy with their set up. poly should be announced at the start of the relationship not in the middle or when it's dying.
So you have 3 children.
Let’s imagine that you and your wife decide to make the split permanent, and you enter another relationship.
You have 3 children who you are required to support financially at least until they’re 18. So if you add another child or 2 to the mix, paying child support, and you and your now ex wife having to pay for 2 households, how do you plan to cover the following?
Helping your children pay for tertiary education Spending time with your children, attending concerts and sports matches, picking them up from a date or party gone wrong Taking them to doctor and dentist appointments Picking them up from school when they are sick or injured Helping your kids buy their first car Teaching them how to play golf, or ski, or play tennis Shopping with them for a prom outfit Teaching them how to cook your mother’s recipe for roast lamb
Remember that your children need you to commit time as well as money. How do you think that will go if you decide to add another child or 2 to your family? Adding another 18 years on top of your existing commitment?
Blended families are hot work. It’s not impossible, but it takes really good communication from all parties, plus a lot of time and effort. You can read post after post in Reddit from people who felt abandoned as children by the parent who ran off and created Family, The Sequel. And in most cases that relationship never recovered.
Take your wife out of the equation for the moment. Do you want to raise another child? Or 2 or 3? Because if you don’t, why would you keep that door open for a hypothetical woman in the future?
I feel like your best friend is secretly in love with you or your fiancé cheated on you. Maybe both.
Either way, you deserve answers.
All the advice I can think of has already been said, please update when you figure it out or make a move here, OP. There are lots of theories but truly you can't know until you put your foot down and demand answers.
I would be wary of tying the knot before the truth is out, whether it's one of the speculations people have made here or something entirely different, this impacts you and it isn't fair for others to make decisions on your behalf without your consent.
Good luck, think things over and stand up for yourself here, don't let them off the hook this easily it will gnaw at you forever and you deserve the truth, whatever it may be.
The cheating alone you shouldn't forgive. It sounds like she doesn't respect you at all
Divorce her, don’t have kids. This is a golden opportunity to get out now and start fresh.
My ex was the same way – the moment she tasted wedding cake, she stopped even pretending to act with basic courtesy or respect. It happens – lots of these girls want to GET married, but never thought about BEING married…and they don’t like it.
Professionals are probably giving this same advice to her. Its good of people to try and help, but everyone repeating the same thing to her that her doctors are telling her isn't it.