You approached her, with a serious face, sat her down and told her “you know I just realized I'm a textbook premature ejaculator”
Man .. I'm sorry but that's like asking someone to sit down to tell them the sky is blue. I don't think she was laughing at you or your issue. I think she was laughing at the absurdity of you bringing up something obvious with such gravitas. I get it's a sore point, but…it's really not news to her.
Omg … that was harsh haha.. but yeah, I am feeling her. I guess I want someone who can be fun and wants to explore new stuff…. Yeah, it’s sad. Makes me think. Thanks for sharing l and tell your mom that she made the right decision otherwise she wouldn’t have a child she adores.
NTA, do not do this if you're uncomfortable with it, it will just lead to resentment.
I did this with my SO. We moved in together, he started a Master's and I worked, providing for both of us. I had just graduated and was therefore used to the student lifestyle, and for me the tradeoff was worth it (it was also linked to ending the long-distance aspect of our relationship). But being responsible for someone else financially is tough, especially when you don't earn a huge salary yourself. I absolutely don't regret it, it was a great decision for us as a couple. But it was also exhausting and I did not quit a job that made me miserable until I found a new job, a decision I might not have made if I was only responsible for myself.
Oh I get it so she’s mad that she woke up and you didn’t have anything ready so to say because you guys were just hanging out until you went to brunch together? I think she’s definitely being a little bit nitpicky and her expectations were super high but also on the morning of her birthday I kind of think that maybe you should have had a card at least! 
It’s all good, it’s an understandable idea that people genuinely don’t realize could land them in trouble that’s the last thing they need in this horrible situation
Yes, people tend to forget they need alone space more than they think. It enriches the partnership for sure.
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So, let me get this straight.
You last 30 seconds or less
You've been with this woman for 8 years
You approached her, with a serious face, sat her down and told her “you know I just realized I'm a textbook premature ejaculator”
Man .. I'm sorry but that's like asking someone to sit down to tell them the sky is blue. I don't think she was laughing at you or your issue. I think she was laughing at the absurdity of you bringing up something obvious with such gravitas. I get it's a sore point, but…it's really not news to her.
Omg … that was harsh haha.. but yeah, I am feeling her. I guess I want someone who can be fun and wants to explore new stuff…. Yeah, it’s sad. Makes me think. Thanks for sharing l and tell your mom that she made the right decision otherwise she wouldn’t have a child she adores.
NTA, do not do this if you're uncomfortable with it, it will just lead to resentment.
I did this with my SO. We moved in together, he started a Master's and I worked, providing for both of us. I had just graduated and was therefore used to the student lifestyle, and for me the tradeoff was worth it (it was also linked to ending the long-distance aspect of our relationship). But being responsible for someone else financially is tough, especially when you don't earn a huge salary yourself. I absolutely don't regret it, it was a great decision for us as a couple. But it was also exhausting and I did not quit a job that made me miserable until I found a new job, a decision I might not have made if I was only responsible for myself.
The road to hell is paved with good intentions.
Oh I get it so she’s mad that she woke up and you didn’t have anything ready so to say because you guys were just hanging out until you went to brunch together? I think she’s definitely being a little bit nitpicky and her expectations were super high but also on the morning of her birthday I kind of think that maybe you should have had a card at least! 
Insecurity, controlling little boys get on my last fucking nerve and this comment section is full of them.
It’s all good, it’s an understandable idea that people genuinely don’t realize could land them in trouble that’s the last thing they need in this horrible situation
BPD stands for borderline personality disorder, not bipolar. There are no meds for it. Only intense therapy.