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Anya & Victor, 21 y.o.
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Date: October 10, 2022
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Your poor kid shouldn't be going through this.
Different people, different approaches. Instead of being cheated on, I’d rather an open relationship where partners feel they can get something that’s missing elsewhere if needed.
If there’s something I’m not into, they can do it with someone else (and vice versa)… a lot less pressure when you’re not trying to be “everything” to someone.
(Of course it requires the actual relationship to be solid before being open to physical fun with others.)
Therapy is your best option. There are skills you can learn to deal with intrusive thoughts of all kind.
But the most important thing to remember is that they are just thoughts. They have no power over you and you don't have to act on them. If when it comes into your brain you say “Oh, there's an intrusive thought. It's not important, it's just a weird thing my brain does,” and then move on, you'll realize these thoughts have less and less power over you.
I agree, it is silly but I have a bit of the 'tism myself and overthinking things in media is something I do to pretty much everything I'm required to remember for more than 20 minutes, which is why I don't watch movies often.
We usually get along exceptionally well and squash arguments before they get to this point. We know we've been taught bad and even toxic communication patterns by our families, so we're very conscious and active on trying not to make the same mistakes. I guess this post was a result of me overthinking then lol thank you for your words of reason.
What is straight passing?
So many people are not understanding the situation and making brass conclusions. No I did not rape her. I did not force her to do anything. I was being vague because I don't know how much I can say without being banned.
I did not even have actual intercourse with her. It was entirely foreplay.
When I say “out of control” I mean I didn't listen to 2 requests she made. I unzipped a hoodie all the way when she asked me not to and I initiated before she had a chance. She still consented and she asked me to keep going more than a few times. You have jumped the gun on this. I'm sorry about my miscommunication, but it is no where nearly as bad as you are thinking.
I think it partially depends on the crime? If it was possession of drugs or something like that, sure, pretty easily forgiven, especially if it was so long ago.
Well that is the thing about lying… once someone lies about one thing, you wonder what else they are hiding. You are not overreacting. If he was doing nothing to be ashamed of, why tell you she lived so far away? Why hide being in contact with her if you were totally fine with him being in contact with his ex's? And if they such great friends with regular contact, how in the heck does he not tell her about being in a relationship for a year and a half???? I am not saying he is physically cheating, but clearly he knows what he was doing was wrong or he wouldn't have been hiding it from you.
Girl, I was in your place three weeks ago.
My (ex) fiancé had the audacity to tell me he still loved me. Like fucking shit you do. You cannot love someone and slip your dick into another chick at the same time.
I moved out two days later. I've recovered from the initial shock of finding out. Its still painful but much more manageable now that I'm not in the same house as him.
He keeps texting me telling me how worthless his life feels without me blah blah blah. I was an awesome partner who gave him respect, adoration, valued him, went out of my way to show him I cared. Of course you fucking miss me. He claims to be on the edge of suicide (politely called his mom so that someone could help him while maintaining my distance).
But I refuses to be lured back in. Love bombing will not work on me and I hope it doesn't work on you either. These guys will absolutely cheat again. Let them feel the consequences of their actions.
You don’t need to worry and you definitely don’t need to show up and stalk! Who cares if she flirts?! He knows right from wrong and you trust him. Focus on him and your relationship and ignore her and her behavior. She is nothing to either of you.