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Yes, it is worth breaking up over.
The unpopular opinion I have regarding it is that you also could take the road of showing him how his alpha mentality is harming you and that he shouldn't be projecting his childhood trauma on you, as you pointed out.
I'm a firm believer that men like him are being malicious, but rather that he is just ignorant and unaware of how his treatment is affecting you. Lay it out to him. Explain how X behavior makes you feel Y way. If you have to draw on the mentality, explain how an “alpha” wolf actually takes care of the pack, supporting the weakest and most frail, and protects from behind the weakest as opposed to bullrushing headlong into things.
Watch his behavior as you explain. Suggest he go to therapy if he recognizes what you are saying and wants to make an effort to be better.
If he doesn't understand that he is abusing you, that's when you say he can't be trusted to be your partner if he won't even accept that further behavior like that is willful abuse and that you're breaking up.
Have a friend nearby in case that point goes south.
I agree that it’s not a great statement to start off with. But it sounds like this has come up MANY times for OP in the past. There is a certain point where you should give someone a heads up that you are mentally on the way out of the relationship. Especially when it’s due to a topic that has already been talked about repeatedly.
My suggestion was more of a suggestion to give her a warning that the relationship is coming to an end. Because based on how this post is written, I honestly don’t think his girlfriend is interested in being more sexual active with him.
I agree about carrying the mental load of the relationship. But after years… the likelihood that OP or his girlfriend are going to change enough to get back on track is slim to none.
This is a classic story for a reason. There’s only two options here and everyone involves hurt. The easiest is to bare the hurt and get over your feelings for best friend. Unless she feels the same is different. But there’s no world where you amicably get together without being bad people. Unless you somehow got your gf’s blessing. Delete this post. Go to therapy.
I did consider the caveat and that is also one of the reasons I ask. As lovely as it sounds I don’t think that is a possibility and I think between that and the mental state has led me to this decision tbh
Irrelevant. She would not have offered to help. Stop worrying about some ghost and be glad you have someone with the tools to assist you.
Honey listen, I’m 51 female, he’s a year younger than me, he’s got stuff going on with his body Bet his soldier area is starting to turn gray and his chest hair. Don’t worry about what he says. Giving life things happen I’ve had 4, I don’t look like I did when I was 28. You are beautiful just the way you are. The most important thing that happened to your body is you gave birth to a healthy beautiful child. And I’m sorry but the reason he’s not dating someone his age is because he knows we won’t put up with his shit.
This! Jesus fucking hell! Im not even gonna get into this excusing his shit. Hes a POS.
It's rape! He raped u! And he will do it again. Any man that would see ur hurt, physically hurt u! And see u cry! While forcing himself on u does NOT LOVE U!
HE DOESN'T GIVE A SHIT AND HE WILL CONTINUE TO DO THIS AGAIN AND AGAIN OP!
Listen to everyone here. I'm sorry this happened to u but u fucking can't make excuses for this guy and say u want to stay in a relationship with him. dk if it's easy for u to stay in denial about what happened as a coping mechanism to justify it. But u cannot justify this at all!
HE IS A RAPIST! LEAVE!
Do both? My bio dad was never in my life but I had many father figures. I danced with my stepdad, my grandpa and my two uncles
My ex was like this. He would go soft often too. I would say ED
Stop feeling guilty. You're the only one in this shit situation who has nothing to feel guilty about and apparently the only one who does. Your sister doesn't feel guilty for fucking your husband. Your parents don't feel guilty for siding with your homewrecking sister. And no one feels guilty for unfairly blaming you and kicking you out of the family. You're the scapegoat.
I mean. There’s no way it goes from “I’m fine” to an accident without feeling like you had to go beforehand