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Need WAY more info/context. A LOT of porn performers, for example, are 18, 19, early 20s, so I don't think that even an older man looking at sexual/erotic photos of someone that age is all that unusual or a red flag in itself.
Describe what you're talking about when you say “seductive posts”. You say he knows this woman's parents (she's an adult – albeit a much younger adult – not a “young girl”); does he have an existing relationship with her, where it would make (non-creepy) sense that he's following her on whatever social media or publication platform we're talking about, or is the only clear reason he'd be following her to creep on her?
At my last job, a woman I worked with was hooking up with a short term contractor who did some IT work for us. She was very discreet and kept everything after hours. But the contractor was the same religion as a full-timer on staff, and they went to lunch together a lot because they ate the same kinds of foods. At lunch, the contractor would tell the full-timer all about his hookups with the woman. Eventually the full-timer told other full-timers. Soon, everyone knew all kinds of intimate details about this woman. I was a manager in a different department but it wasn’t long before I knew that she had a big bruise on her back from banging into the faucet over and over again when they did it in the sink of our office bathroom. This all happened 5 years and 2 jobs ago but it’s still the first thing I think of when this woman pops up in my FB feed. OP, THIS GUY DOESN’T RESPECT YOU AND HE DOESN’T CARE IF NO ONE ESLE DOES, EITHER. Why would you give him another chance?!
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Need WAY more info/context. A LOT of porn performers, for example, are 18, 19, early 20s, so I don't think that even an older man looking at sexual/erotic photos of someone that age is all that unusual or a red flag in itself.
Describe what you're talking about when you say “seductive posts”. You say he knows this woman's parents (she's an adult – albeit a much younger adult – not a “young girl”); does he have an existing relationship with her, where it would make (non-creepy) sense that he's following her on whatever social media or publication platform we're talking about, or is the only clear reason he'd be following her to creep on her?
Fair enough, that’s tricky
I’m gonna keep this nugget for next time that I need a “get out of jail card”.
At my last job, a woman I worked with was hooking up with a short term contractor who did some IT work for us. She was very discreet and kept everything after hours. But the contractor was the same religion as a full-timer on staff, and they went to lunch together a lot because they ate the same kinds of foods. At lunch, the contractor would tell the full-timer all about his hookups with the woman. Eventually the full-timer told other full-timers. Soon, everyone knew all kinds of intimate details about this woman. I was a manager in a different department but it wasn’t long before I knew that she had a big bruise on her back from banging into the faucet over and over again when they did it in the sink of our office bathroom. This all happened 5 years and 2 jobs ago but it’s still the first thing I think of when this woman pops up in my FB feed. OP, THIS GUY DOESN’T RESPECT YOU AND HE DOESN’T CARE IF NO ONE ESLE DOES, EITHER. Why would you give him another chance?!