The face he made could mean “oh shit what do I say, this is awkward.. do I lie or be honest? Obviously she doesn't have 20 year old breasts but we are dating and banging so I clearly I find her attractive.. oh shit I've taken too long to respond I'll just nod..”
by doing so it disrespecting you & the relationship. He put her first then you – that is a BIG RED FLAG. I bet the ex wife found out they are fwb & still are & that's why they are exes.
If you knew his ex better talk to her & find out.
While you are at it go & tell her bf about the cute name, about how she keeps on asking your bf out etc & tell him to put a leash on her. I'm surprised her bf is the same name as your bf? suspicious isn't it?
years ago I had a coworker who is in love with our CEO but he is married & loyal too. so she ended up marrying a guy who look almost like him & same name too – that show how psycho a person can be for lust & obsession as this is not love.
anyway the MAIN & BIG problem here is your bf & boundaries – despite being a divorcee he is oblivious to boundaries. FFS just dump him already & get yourself a better man. Know your self-worth.
I also forgot to mention. With me having no income and he's just started his business money isn't great. He pays everything and is struggling. He wants me to gain independence which is 100% what I need
ALL. OF. THIS!!!
The face he made could mean “oh shit what do I say, this is awkward.. do I lie or be honest? Obviously she doesn't have 20 year old breasts but we are dating and banging so I clearly I find her attractive.. oh shit I've taken too long to respond I'll just nod..”
Your bf is being an ass.
You have more ketchup? Then use as much as you want.
He doesn't get to determine how you eat your food.
Also, next time, maybe split the potatoes into 2 separate bowls and each portion your own ketchup. Then, no fight, right?
If he has an issue with that solution, then you have bigger problems.
by doing so it disrespecting you & the relationship. He put her first then you – that is a BIG RED FLAG. I bet the ex wife found out they are fwb & still are & that's why they are exes.
If you knew his ex better talk to her & find out.
While you are at it go & tell her bf about the cute name, about how she keeps on asking your bf out etc & tell him to put a leash on her. I'm surprised her bf is the same name as your bf? suspicious isn't it?
years ago I had a coworker who is in love with our CEO but he is married & loyal too. so she ended up marrying a guy who look almost like him & same name too – that show how psycho a person can be for lust & obsession as this is not love.
anyway the MAIN & BIG problem here is your bf & boundaries – despite being a divorcee he is oblivious to boundaries. FFS just dump him already & get yourself a better man. Know your self-worth.
….& I bet you he is cheating with her.
This is what I said.along with reasons withstanding…just hiding the whole thing is enough to be done.
I also forgot to mention. With me having no income and he's just started his business money isn't great. He pays everything and is struggling. He wants me to gain independence which is 100% what I need