Ok so you quiet school and move to his country. He’s a student too so he has no money. You have no degree, and no experience. What kind of job are you going to get?
What if it goes sour after you move? No money, no job, no education. You’re now reliant on him for food and housing and are separated from your friends and family
OP this would be so stupid to do.
At least graduate first. But why would you want to be with someone that clearly doesn’t care about your own growth or future?
Your wording makes giving you advice difficult. Incest implies a sexual relationship between blood relatives. It's not exactly abnormal for children to send money home to their parents.
Talking about a household with an absentee father implies they were always in dire straits, sounds like he still has siblings that live with mom. He's likely not the yype of guy to abandon his family, if you make him choose one or the other he'll probably pick them over you.
To fix the situation You should focus on finding a way to make the other siblings financially stable on their own. Then they can reduce eachothers burdens. As long as he remains the only financially reliable one, he'll keep fulfilling this role until his family betrays his trust.
Cheating is not a mistake, how can you even say that? You had another relationship for 1 WHOLE YEAR that’s everything but a mistake. Leave your ex alone, she blocked you for a reason you weirdo
Honestly I'm not sure myself.. I have tried to mention it and to get him to go but he doesn't seem willing. It's really disheartening.. But thank you, this helps. I appreciate it.
I agree with other commentators here. Document everything. Write down everything that you can remember. If they asked you out via email or text, forward that stuff to something outside your company’s server. If you rejected them via text or email, document and save that too. Tell the guy who tipped you off that it has escalated to stalking you at the gym. Ask him to email you what he heard. At least you will know if he will stand by the truth.
Then consult with an attorney.
I know you think company HR won’t do anything, but you would be surprised. Corporations don’t want lawsuits and bad publicity. TBH, multiple employees conspiring to harass and even stalk their boss sounds like a pretty big liability. It’s not just turning a blind eye to an off color joke.
Try to picture yourself 5 years from now. This clown a distant memory, you happy and healthy, maybe single, maybe in a relationship with a caring and supportive partner. None of that can happen if you don't pinch this turd off in the bowl and flush.
teenagers need a lot of care. not the same kind as a toddler, but still lots. this13 year old has an addict mother and has been raised by his grandparents deliberately to keep dad away. this is a tinderkeg.
Hey, so on top of the things everyone else is saying, think about what this means about him. If he thinks men can’t help but sexualize women who wear certain clothes, he’s telling on himself. He’s gross. On top of controlling and jealous.
This won't end well. Everyone is going to find out one way or another. The friend who has feelings for you will say they understand it's only sex, but in reality, it just makes the candle they burn for you burn brighter. It's cruel. You're using her for sex and telling her that you want to use her for sex, knowing she has feelings for you and won't say no. That's kinda scummy in itself, dude.
Fuck her exbf to assert dominance.
Your …dad….Isn’t really acting like a dad to his daughter n grandchildren. More like, a douche
Nooooooooooo
Never cancel your own future for another person.
Ok so you quiet school and move to his country. He’s a student too so he has no money. You have no degree, and no experience. What kind of job are you going to get?
What if it goes sour after you move? No money, no job, no education. You’re now reliant on him for food and housing and are separated from your friends and family
OP this would be so stupid to do.
At least graduate first. But why would you want to be with someone that clearly doesn’t care about your own growth or future?
Learn something new everyday thanks?
Her doing it in bed is rude. What a pig.
She and her kid can't do anything wrong.
Speaking from experience this way of thinking is a way bigger issue in the long run than any single one of the arguments it causes.
Your wording makes giving you advice difficult. Incest implies a sexual relationship between blood relatives. It's not exactly abnormal for children to send money home to their parents.
Talking about a household with an absentee father implies they were always in dire straits, sounds like he still has siblings that live with mom. He's likely not the yype of guy to abandon his family, if you make him choose one or the other he'll probably pick them over you.
To fix the situation You should focus on finding a way to make the other siblings financially stable on their own. Then they can reduce eachothers burdens. As long as he remains the only financially reliable one, he'll keep fulfilling this role until his family betrays his trust.
Good luck either way.
Cheating is not a mistake, how can you even say that? You had another relationship for 1 WHOLE YEAR that’s everything but a mistake. Leave your ex alone, she blocked you for a reason you weirdo
Honestly I'm not sure myself.. I have tried to mention it and to get him to go but he doesn't seem willing. It's really disheartening.. But thank you, this helps. I appreciate it.
I agree with other commentators here. Document everything. Write down everything that you can remember. If they asked you out via email or text, forward that stuff to something outside your company’s server. If you rejected them via text or email, document and save that too. Tell the guy who tipped you off that it has escalated to stalking you at the gym. Ask him to email you what he heard. At least you will know if he will stand by the truth.
Then consult with an attorney.
I know you think company HR won’t do anything, but you would be surprised. Corporations don’t want lawsuits and bad publicity. TBH, multiple employees conspiring to harass and even stalk their boss sounds like a pretty big liability. It’s not just turning a blind eye to an off color joke.
How does your dad drive? Could this be some insane level of road rage that just scared tf out of her??
Try to picture yourself 5 years from now. This clown a distant memory, you happy and healthy, maybe single, maybe in a relationship with a caring and supportive partner. None of that can happen if you don't pinch this turd off in the bowl and flush.
teenagers need a lot of care. not the same kind as a toddler, but still lots. this13 year old has an addict mother and has been raised by his grandparents deliberately to keep dad away. this is a tinderkeg.
Hey, so on top of the things everyone else is saying, think about what this means about him. If he thinks men can’t help but sexualize women who wear certain clothes, he’s telling on himself. He’s gross. On top of controlling and jealous.
This is not okay. You can do better.
This won't end well. Everyone is going to find out one way or another. The friend who has feelings for you will say they understand it's only sex, but in reality, it just makes the candle they burn for you burn brighter. It's cruel. You're using her for sex and telling her that you want to use her for sex, knowing she has feelings for you and won't say no. That's kinda scummy in itself, dude.
Listen here to this OP or a place on the Maury Show is in your future!!!