Id like to think i am an enthusiastic giver and a communicative partner, My GF and i both i believe. We talk about sex everyday, we are constantly improving as well. I just haven't created that incredibly charged spontaneous moment like she did with her ex apparently.
And to be fair we all have plenty of people we find attractive but would never be intimate with for all sorts of good reasons. If I hooked up with or tried to hook up with everyone I found attractive I wouldn’t have many friends at all.
How was she with food in her childhood? I have an eating disorder & body dysmorphia and it stems from (no shit) my childhood. My mum would always cook three potatoes for each person in the family + one extra potato so if we were really hungry that day (sports or whatever) then we’d binge whatever we had on our plate and fight for that last potato.
She’d also always compare me to my sister. My sister and I don’t share the same dad and my sister was blessed with a beautiful thin body. I was more pear shaped. My mum would always call me too fat to do anything.
I think your girlfriend could benefit from a therapist or dietitian.
How about you both go to a dietitian… you’ll pretend you want to stop eating crisps and want to learn to eat healthier. And then once there you can ask what to do about this crisps problem?
Thank you! I really liked your reply. I appreciate that.
This made me a tear up a bit thank you so much ❤️
Id like to think i am an enthusiastic giver and a communicative partner, My GF and i both i believe. We talk about sex everyday, we are constantly improving as well. I just haven't created that incredibly charged spontaneous moment like she did with her ex apparently.
And to be fair we all have plenty of people we find attractive but would never be intimate with for all sorts of good reasons. If I hooked up with or tried to hook up with everyone I found attractive I wouldn’t have many friends at all.
No I am guilty because I put my husband at a risk of getting hurt.
I’ll keep saying this. Them sleeping together is the most normal thing that happened in this story.
How was she with food in her childhood? I have an eating disorder & body dysmorphia and it stems from (no shit) my childhood. My mum would always cook three potatoes for each person in the family + one extra potato so if we were really hungry that day (sports or whatever) then we’d binge whatever we had on our plate and fight for that last potato.
She’d also always compare me to my sister. My sister and I don’t share the same dad and my sister was blessed with a beautiful thin body. I was more pear shaped. My mum would always call me too fat to do anything.
I think your girlfriend could benefit from a therapist or dietitian.
How about you both go to a dietitian… you’ll pretend you want to stop eating crisps and want to learn to eat healthier. And then once there you can ask what to do about this crisps problem?