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Go to therapy. Get a male therapist and talk with him about it. Ultimately talking to a professional who will be well versed in how to make peace with yourself and recognize how to best help deal with the problems in your relationship is your best bet. I say a male for you, mainly because you're dealing with males, that's the perspective you're looking to understand and create a working relationship with.
I feel like the fact she's omitting the gender of the friend, is kind of indicating it was a male friend
I think people assume its a female friend because the friend also had gotten their nipple pierced. A likely true assumption, but not 100%.
If he's gone so far as to stop talking to her though, I'm guessing there's more to this than 'me and my girl got our nips pierced and showed each other.'
Maybe, maybe he is just very possesive/insecure. Really no way to know without more info.
Yeah, that sounds like something that needs individual counselling for her and couples counselling for you both together to work out how to move forwards and stop this from getting worse.
You guys need to be able to be each other’s refuge from the stresses of the world. Seems stress has gotten her all out of whack so it’s gonna take some work to recover and renormalise healthy communication.
What a hurtful thing to say. Seems she really has no interest in sex. You're not sexually compatible. Like Nurgle said, this is why waiting until marriage is a bad idea.
He is not a dog that has to be coaxed and trained with treats and rewards to behave. He is exploiting your desire to mature and grow together by demanding that be permitted to, essentially, physically abuse you during sex.
Where is the part in this marriage where he cares about you, wants to nurture you, works towards YOUR wellbeing?
His attitude is despicable. He is leveraging your desire for his happiness to try to force you to partake in activities he KNOWS you do not like, that benefit nobody but him.
I've said it before and I'll say it again – being on the spectrum is NOT an excuse to be an arsehole.
Go to therapy. Get a male therapist and talk with him about it. Ultimately talking to a professional who will be well versed in how to make peace with yourself and recognize how to best help deal with the problems in your relationship is your best bet. I say a male for you, mainly because you're dealing with males, that's the perspective you're looking to understand and create a working relationship with.
I feel like the fact she's omitting the gender of the friend, is kind of indicating it was a male friend
I think people assume its a female friend because the friend also had gotten their nipple pierced. A likely true assumption, but not 100%.
If he's gone so far as to stop talking to her though, I'm guessing there's more to this than 'me and my girl got our nips pierced and showed each other.'
Maybe, maybe he is just very possesive/insecure. Really no way to know without more info.
Based on what we have, the BF looks bad though.
Yes!
If it was me, I’d want to know. I think you should reach out once more with what you’ve posted here. He’s a liar.
She’s keeping you in the hook. Ditch her if you know what’s good for you
Yeah, that sounds like something that needs individual counselling for her and couples counselling for you both together to work out how to move forwards and stop this from getting worse.
You guys need to be able to be each other’s refuge from the stresses of the world. Seems stress has gotten her all out of whack so it’s gonna take some work to recover and renormalise healthy communication.
Thank you for this
Besides some shit house on useless land. What has this man done for him? He had a job, this guy's turned around his business.
Dump her.
She cheated on you. And the having sex in the next room part is just icing on the get rid of her cake.
If you want a little piece of the revenge pie, either have sex with her then dump her straight afterwards, or get on with one of her friends.
Thank you, most correct thing you've said this evening!
What a hurtful thing to say. Seems she really has no interest in sex. You're not sexually compatible. Like Nurgle said, this is why waiting until marriage is a bad idea.
This is flat out emotional blackmail.
He is not a dog that has to be coaxed and trained with treats and rewards to behave. He is exploiting your desire to mature and grow together by demanding that be permitted to, essentially, physically abuse you during sex.
Where is the part in this marriage where he cares about you, wants to nurture you, works towards YOUR wellbeing?
His attitude is despicable. He is leveraging your desire for his happiness to try to force you to partake in activities he KNOWS you do not like, that benefit nobody but him.
I've said it before and I'll say it again – being on the spectrum is NOT an excuse to be an arsehole.
Tell me all about it
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