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Date: October 3, 2022
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It was a test to see if you were going to be his doormat when he moved out to you. If you still stand up to him and expect your feelings to matter, then he has to break you down more
There was a stretch last year where we were broken up. Together consistently for 10 months
A lot of people on reddit have the misguided idea that any time a woman asks for a break it means she was already cheating or plans to get with another man. Sure, this happens in some cases, but far too many people here treat it as an absolute and apply it like a stereotype. I usually see this assumption on posts about women asking for a break, and hardly ever on posts about men asking for one.
The reality is that people ask for breaks for any number of reasons. Mental health concerns, abuse, stress, family emergencies, conflict, trauma. There is no “normally” reason for a break that is typical of most cases.
You said so yourself that neither of you were handling stress well and you were being passive aggressive and indecisive. You gave us far more context than anyone else here could use to leap to the conclusion that she might be testing out another relationship.
Again, could she be? Sure. But be careful here. Don't let anyone cause you to spiral into anxiety about a possibility you gave no indication of. You know far more than we do.
It would be sexist if it wasn't true, but it is true.
It's not sexist to say men commit way more crimes than women either. It's just facts.
How’s that?
He’s definitely showing interest in casual
It’s the midwest, so the city in question is pretty small as far as cities go, completely un-walkable, terrible to no public transit, and pretty much the bottom of the barrel culturally, especially compared to the other metro areas in the state. It’s not like he’s advocating for moving someplace actually cool. We’d still have to travel 2-4 hours for big concerts, pro sports games, quality zoos/aquariums/museums etc from either place.
I briefly mentioned this elsewhere but his job options in state are the same anywhere we go while he has no degree. He works in HVAC supply right now, I’ve already talked to some folks I know back home about finding him a very nice job in manufacturing (small radio/computer parts, sitting down, great benefits, clean environment, low turnover, basically the best he could ask for considering his education level).
I always think they're creating accounts with a bot so they can farm karma and sell them off. There's a market for reddit accounts. Everyone wants to tap into the power of reddit but nobody wants to do the work to get there.
After reading everyone’s comments, I think my only option is pretty clear. I’m going to pack up for a few days and go stay with my parents an hour away. I’m going to come back to our place on a day I know he has his daughter so I can tell her what happened then I’ll take the rest of my things and move in with my parents or my sister until I find a new place to live!.
This is beyond relationship advice, you need legal advice.
Do you know where your legal papers and social security card are in the house, and can you retrieve them?
Please find someone to guide you through how to block her from both your and your siblings accounts now, ask at your school for free legal advice or make some calls to the local social services to find out what is there. You seem to have a healthy support system around, ask them for help as well.
I feel like she's probably staying in the hometown to work for her mom because being the boss' daughter is convenient. She can ask for more or less hours and her mom would probably just agree. If she doesn't have to pay anything, that probably helps her save up.
Nonetheless, she still is making a choice. You have talked to her about it several times and got nowhere. It seems like she's ignoring the fact that this bothers you the way it does.
You have two options. Ultimatum or break up. You could say “if you aren't going to move here within the next month, I think we should break up”. If she doesn't do it, end the relationship. Or, if you're tired of trying and getting nowhere, just tell her this isn't working out for you and you need someone who is committed to the relationship the way you are.
Either option is reasonable in my opinion.
he got super pissed and said he didn’t want to talk to me for a few days. Later sent a text saying “i know you’re not feeling well so i’ll let what you said earlier slide”
What the fuck?
How have you not already broken up with this guy, told him never to contact you again under any circumstances, and blocked him on all possible channels?
He's an asshole. He's either an asshole and a rapist, or he's “just” an asshole. Why would you continue standing still once you've realized you're standing in a tar pit?
Is she purchasing drugs? Or cheating?
God this is so naive. He’s already displaying cheating behaviors, you don’t need to walk in on him doing the deed with someone else to say he has broken your trust and destroyed this relationship. Just move on
No matter what happens, if you stay in this relationship you need to get couples counseling.
But honestly, and I know this won't be a popular sentiment, I would definitely try to see if a threesome/opened relationship could work because pragamatically speaking? Even if we break up at least I got a mff as a parting gift.
Oof, I feel this one. I consider myself a clean freak, but then I met some past girlfriends who had much higher standards than me and compared to them I was a filthy slob.
You probably already know isn’t going to change, or if it does change it’ll probably require you to waste a whole lot of social capital and goodwill you could’ve spent elsewhere.
If you stay, it’ll continue. If you leave, there’ll be a different set of pros and cons with some other person.
Figure out if it’s the hill to die on and act accordingly.
Thank you.