About a year into my relationship I got tested for the first time ever as part of getting setup with my new family doctor. No symptoms, nothing. Testes positive.
Reached out to my girlfriend, ex girlfriend and the women I'd slept with in my intermediary hoe phase and none of them had it.
Doctor was very clear it lies dormant in a lot of people and that those people are very unlikely to pass it along. My only recollection of symptoms was when I was about 8, right around when I was SA'd.
I'd trust your girlfriend as the default if everything else feels normal.
Sounds like your boyfriend is being a bit of a pussy, I don't see that you have done anything wrong here, you have offered your explanation and he appears to be overreacting somewhat, just try to reassure him again, but be prepared to get a bit tough if he continues to make a mountain out of a molehill.
There are other reasons your wife doesn't like your dad, unless she's politically judgemental. I think marriage counseling will help (and also create a good professional record of no harm to children if your marriage ever breaks down). Super workable problem though. Also work together on your conflict resolution skills!!! You are both passive aggressive, that is poisonous to your marriage!
This happened to me only I was the positive one.
About a year into my relationship I got tested for the first time ever as part of getting setup with my new family doctor. No symptoms, nothing. Testes positive.
Reached out to my girlfriend, ex girlfriend and the women I'd slept with in my intermediary hoe phase and none of them had it.
Doctor was very clear it lies dormant in a lot of people and that those people are very unlikely to pass it along. My only recollection of symptoms was when I was about 8, right around when I was SA'd.
I'd trust your girlfriend as the default if everything else feels normal.
Sounds like your boyfriend is being a bit of a pussy, I don't see that you have done anything wrong here, you have offered your explanation and he appears to be overreacting somewhat, just try to reassure him again, but be prepared to get a bit tough if he continues to make a mountain out of a molehill.
Don’t leave. See how it is for a month. He could be planning to propose
Same my mind went straight there, awkward energy from the friends, what else would they do if they arn't the drinking types.
There are other reasons your wife doesn't like your dad, unless she's politically judgemental. I think marriage counseling will help (and also create a good professional record of no harm to children if your marriage ever breaks down). Super workable problem though. Also work together on your conflict resolution skills!!! You are both passive aggressive, that is poisonous to your marriage!
Install indoor cameras this doesn’t sound right.