You’re probably still a little drunk/hungover. Go sleep, eat, and give yourself some time to think. Making decisions in this state is rarely a great idea.
This is good. I had to pose the question. Knew a guy who smelled really funky once and heard about nose blindness on a show and it was like 'damn. Dude can't smell his own funk'.
Internet mom here. The only thing worse than throwing away 3 years is adding another day to this relationship. Getting married is not going to fix this. It will probably get worse. Touch matters. A lot. Is this really what you want for the rest of your life? You can’t go into a marriage with the expectation that he will change. Either accept him exactly as he is or move on.
You are wrong. Your discomfort doesn't excus how you're trying to impose on someone else. Boundaries are not what others have to do or not do. It's what you will or won't do.
If I decide it is unsafe or inappropriate FOR ME to sleep over at a person's house or hang out alone with specific people or in a specific situation – that is a boundary. Telling someone else it's inappropriate for them to do it is not a boundary.
A business that requires several people working for free is not a viable business. They need to find a different strategy.
Maybe your husband could go in and help out for a few weeks or even months to see if things might be turned around within that timeframe. But working six days a week around a family is not fair on you or your child.
My partner worked six days a week when the kids were small and it's the one thing we both regret the most about how we raised our children. He was too tired on his one day off to do anything fun or interesting, and I too was wiped out from dealing with the kids literally all the time.
Also, since we both have a different native language to the language spoken where we on-line, we had decided that we would each teach our children our respective native languages. The kids didn't see their father enough to be able to learn his language with him, so now they have difficulty communicating with his family, making family reunions awkward.
Lol. So she’s picking great people and just evil men just cheat? Go away
You’re probably still a little drunk/hungover. Go sleep, eat, and give yourself some time to think. Making decisions in this state is rarely a great idea.
Oh goodness, please no.
“My mum thinks I’m cool.”
This is good. I had to pose the question. Knew a guy who smelled really funky once and heard about nose blindness on a show and it was like 'damn. Dude can't smell his own funk'.
they will online well aswell i guess and probably laugh about if they ever think of me at all
Internet mom here. The only thing worse than throwing away 3 years is adding another day to this relationship. Getting married is not going to fix this. It will probably get worse. Touch matters. A lot. Is this really what you want for the rest of your life? You can’t go into a marriage with the expectation that he will change. Either accept him exactly as he is or move on.
An online boyfriend of 3 years, that you haven’t met, is not a real relationship
You are wrong. Your discomfort doesn't excus how you're trying to impose on someone else. Boundaries are not what others have to do or not do. It's what you will or won't do.
If I decide it is unsafe or inappropriate FOR ME to sleep over at a person's house or hang out alone with specific people or in a specific situation – that is a boundary. Telling someone else it's inappropriate for them to do it is not a boundary.
I'm sorry, just because I've seen it a few times… it's spelled counseling.
A business that requires several people working for free is not a viable business. They need to find a different strategy.
Maybe your husband could go in and help out for a few weeks or even months to see if things might be turned around within that timeframe. But working six days a week around a family is not fair on you or your child.
My partner worked six days a week when the kids were small and it's the one thing we both regret the most about how we raised our children. He was too tired on his one day off to do anything fun or interesting, and I too was wiped out from dealing with the kids literally all the time.
Also, since we both have a different native language to the language spoken where we on-line, we had decided that we would each teach our children our respective native languages. The kids didn't see their father enough to be able to learn his language with him, so now they have difficulty communicating with his family, making family reunions awkward.