Also maybe consider recording the interaction, this person sounds like they will happily lie about what really went down. Also agree with the advice to check over with an employment lawyer to make sure you’re all covered.
That's theft my friend. It sucks that the laws are the way they are, but OP can't do much for that cat without getting in legal trouble. They don't live! together and I assume he doesn't pay for anything regarding the cat. The police will show up, he has no proof of ownership, they will take the cat back and he will be in trouble.
The only thing he can do if she isn't willing to listen to him is to contact the autorities to report the abuse or talk to her parents as she is still living with them and they might be able to talk some sense into her.
If every conversation ends in an argument then what kind of relationship with your mother are your modelling for your child?
You have values you are upholding, she has her support of his choices. That is her choice.
Just because you are family doesn't mean you have to tolerate bigotry or theories that are horrible just to have a relationship with them. The value is outweighed by the disharmony.
Would you willingly choose to sit amongst people arguing? So why put your child through that?
Boundaries might be a good thing to read up on. If she wants to see your child then certain subjects would have to not be dicussed and activity avoided. If you and your mother agree not to discuss anything you will argue about then fine, your relationship though superficial would work, otherwise I would not pursue it.
Aka, I'm in an emotionally abusive relationship with a jealous, insecure person who wants me to burn all my bridges with everyone that isn't him so I'll be easier to control. Good luck with that.
It's like actually a thing anti depressants cause, I don't think he's watching much pork, he could just adk me for pictures, he had to look up suicide girls when I told him that people tell me I should be one
Also maybe consider recording the interaction, this person sounds like they will happily lie about what really went down. Also agree with the advice to check over with an employment lawyer to make sure you’re all covered.
So, this shouldn't be a problem then. You need to nip this in bud, fast.
That's theft my friend. It sucks that the laws are the way they are, but OP can't do much for that cat without getting in legal trouble. They don't live! together and I assume he doesn't pay for anything regarding the cat. The police will show up, he has no proof of ownership, they will take the cat back and he will be in trouble.
The only thing he can do if she isn't willing to listen to him is to contact the autorities to report the abuse or talk to her parents as she is still living with them and they might be able to talk some sense into her.
Your and your parents sound like shit bags. Trans 9yo or not, your parents are fuckhead LDS haters and you allow them to get away with it.
If every conversation ends in an argument then what kind of relationship with your mother are your modelling for your child?
You have values you are upholding, she has her support of his choices. That is her choice.
Just because you are family doesn't mean you have to tolerate bigotry or theories that are horrible just to have a relationship with them. The value is outweighed by the disharmony.
Would you willingly choose to sit amongst people arguing? So why put your child through that?
Boundaries might be a good thing to read up on. If she wants to see your child then certain subjects would have to not be dicussed and activity avoided. If you and your mother agree not to discuss anything you will argue about then fine, your relationship though superficial would work, otherwise I would not pursue it.
Aka, I'm in an emotionally abusive relationship with a jealous, insecure person who wants me to burn all my bridges with everyone that isn't him so I'll be easier to control. Good luck with that.
It's like actually a thing anti depressants cause, I don't think he's watching much pork, he could just adk me for pictures, he had to look up suicide girls when I told him that people tell me I should be one