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Date: December 6, 2022
Per other comments, is she claiming the baby was born at 4 months? Because if so, either she's lying, or she broke the world record for the most premature baby to survive. I had a friend that had a baby ten weeks early, and it was VERY touch-and-go, and baby was in the NICU (in a different country from where they lived, so they had to stay in a hotel) for weeks. If she's claiming to have given birth at 20-ish weeks, and she's NOT dealing with NICU, that plus the vasectomy lead me to believe she's lying to you (maybe trying to manipulate you into a relationship or get child support from you).
Your options: verify, verify, verify. Call the hospital and ask for “baby last name” and tell them you're the father and need to come see about signing the birth certificate. They should at the very least be able to tell you if she is a patient there. If there actually IS a baby, but it's not in the NICU, she likely cheated on you and lied about the timeline. In that case, get a DNA test ordered BEFORE you actually sign any papers or birth certificate.
If both are proven false (no baby, or a baby that isn't yours), cut contact with her and run. You don't want to be in even a FWB relationship with someone crazy enough to try to lie to you and upend your life.
Yes!!! Break up with him immediately! He assaulted you and has NO INTEREST in how you feel, only what he wants! Run run run girl, you need to open your eyes, this is horrific behaviour!
This sounds a little like he's deflecting :/ I hope you are able to have an actual conversation with him about it where you have definitive answers that put your mind at ease.
I would want to know exactly how they know each other, if they've ever had a history/slept together, if anyone he's related to could have dated this woman, or if he's ever donated sperm.
I'd also knock on one day and just ask her how she knows your husband and tell her he's told you but you'd like to hear it from her as well. Don't reveal what you do or don't know, just hold space for her to fill in the blanks for you.
but how do i break up with her?
By not overexplaining yourself. I know you're going to want to tell her honestly what your issues with her were, but we both know she's not going to actually accept any of that information. Worse, if you give her a list of reasons then you give her data points to argue with and the whole thing, at least in her mind, becomes an “if I can debate you about how this isn't really true or isn't really a problem then we get to stay together” situation, almost a game she'll think she can win. And if you're already worried about your resolve then you definitely don't want to turn this into a debate.
Instead just stick to a script. “I'm sorry, but this just isn't working out. We are breaking up.” Just those two sentences, in response to every attempt she makes to argue. I know that will feel cold, but she's not going to leave without a fight and this will keep you from getting off track.
Couples with kids, go on vacation without their kids? Maybe I come from a weird family, but my parents growing up never went on vacation without us. We were never allowed to be left alone.