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No, you should not give her an ultimatum.
Your girlfriend is still very young, basically a child, and going no contact with family is an extremely difficult thing to do – no matter how terrible they may be.
From what you describe, your girlfriend seems to have been told and shown that she has no control over her own life. As someone who loves her, your goal should be to help build her confidence and sense of independence and agency. Telling her she has to decide right now all or nothing would be emotionally manipulative.
You only have a right to decide YOUR boundaries. You don’t have to like her family, and if you don’t want to see them you can state that. However you can’t make the decision for her.
You should gently voice your concerns about how their behaviour impacts her, and encourage her to gain independence in different ways (moving out, limiting time spent with them, etc), encourage her to seek therapy (when she is ready) and help her get to a place where she feels ready to stand up for herself or assert her own boundaries.
You also need to accept that she may never cut off her family, and decide to what extent you’re willing to support her. I know it is frustrating hearing the same problems, and probably very sad to see someone you care about being mistreated. But it’s not for you to decide.
Many people experience extreme abuse, and stay in contact with their abusers for their entire life in some form – all for many different, and valid, reasons.
You are not a knight in shining armour, it’s not your job to rescue a damsel in distress. You can support her, offer to be there when she decides it is time for her to move on, but you can’t force her out.