Thank you for this! That is what I was thinking cuz I’ve been in this situation before but I fell for a straight girl lol and it did not end good. What I’m thinking abt is going to see her again before I tell her how I feel, I’m meant to see her soon so it won’t be too long and I just started to think differently abt her a couple weeks ago
You and me, we are both super young. We don’t need to waste time on people who cheat. Break up with your husband and then go flirting. Don’t lower yourself to being a cheater, you will feel bad afterward and you’ll wonder what sort of person you have become because of your cheating husband. Don’t let him take away your morals.
A counselor/therapist who just happens to be Lutheran or something is fine, and someone who's an exvangelical is even better, but I'm sorry to tell you that conservative/evangelical christianity/purity culture has sold you a bill of goods, and the last thing you need is therapy from someone pushing more of the same.
Yeh that was my fault, I’ve realised I should just be honest, not sure why I even lied, I think I tried it to keep the peace
Thank you for this! That is what I was thinking cuz I’ve been in this situation before but I fell for a straight girl lol and it did not end good. What I’m thinking abt is going to see her again before I tell her how I feel, I’m meant to see her soon so it won’t be too long and I just started to think differently abt her a couple weeks ago
I’m 28, not married.
You and me, we are both super young. We don’t need to waste time on people who cheat. Break up with your husband and then go flirting. Don’t lower yourself to being a cheater, you will feel bad afterward and you’ll wonder what sort of person you have become because of your cheating husband. Don’t let him take away your morals.
Break up with the husband, THEN go fishing.
Therapy and not from a Christian Counselor.
A counselor/therapist who just happens to be Lutheran or something is fine, and someone who's an exvangelical is even better, but I'm sorry to tell you that conservative/evangelical christianity/purity culture has sold you a bill of goods, and the last thing you need is therapy from someone pushing more of the same.
You assumed that your wife was a liar and that her friend was truthful. Why would she want to stay with you, knowing that this was your default?
Yeah between the husband and dad I’m cheering for the husband.
Dump the guy, get into a healthy relationship with a therapist.
Love shouldn’t hurt. Unlearn your old patterns so that a healthy relationship is your default.
The fuck? Yes, see this woman. Why the fuck would you be a “bad guy” for that?
It's about one week's net wages for a median-earning household.
Does he have no interest in shared custody? Even if he takes them every other weekend? It might be enough to give you break.